"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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JOURNAL: How I dumped a Feminist

NeverFear

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I got to know this girl and she sounded highly intelligent and active. We started dating and talking on the phone extensively(broken rule, but she lives in another city so no other option).

Went to see her twice(yep, i think that's the guys responsibility, shows youre a man).

Took her out (kept the cost to a minimum, even though i spend huge amounts of money dating anyway)to an O'charley's twice.

Began to see patterns of self-obsession and selfishness.

She is obsessed with her own schedule, showed up to the date late, couldnt decide what to order, and declared that she was possibly taking another job and that she would be even less available than before.

I dumped her quicker than a rotten outhouse and never looked back.

LESSON: AS SOON AS you know a chick is a FEMINIST, couch potato, or airhead, DUMP !!!!!!!!!!!

COST: Two dates(ok so i should have figured it out sooner)

GOAL: Figure it out by the FIRST date next time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Oxide

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live and learn my friend, live and learn.;)
 

OpenMind

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You are lucky you didn't get emotionally involved before you saw what she was all about! If that happened she may have had you on a leash. Hang on for the ride cuz it is gonna be a bumpy one!
 
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