Date 1 thurs: Really sweet girl, maybe a 6 or 7, med student, doesnt drink, seems innocent, smart, good family type girl. Lots of kino, laughs, good time, I let the date go on a bit longer than it should have because we were doing trivia and she wanted to finish (very competitive), but a good kiss good night. Waited until today to set up second date for this week with her.
date 2 saturday: Fun girl, probably a 5, was all over my nuts, we had some great laughs and prob woulda blown me in the car afterwards but i bailed, texting me all day today.
date 3 today: Was kind of burnt from dates and drinking all weekend but this girl turned out to be pretty sexy, 7 or an 8 I'd say, and I feel as though I was a bit intimidated by the attractiveness (not sure how to rate myself maybe in the 6-7 area, I guess a guys number really just comes down to how big his balls are). Conversation was pretty good I was putting out good kino didn't get much back though. About halfway through the date I went to the bathroom and had to tell myself to stop being a little ***** and just have fun, so maybe recovered a bit. From there I just went with a general i dont give a **** attitude and she gave me a ride home, gave her a real good kiss and she pulled back after several seconds. Wondering if I shoulda pushed that a little further but don't want to be a creep.
The second date seemed like the most fun looking back at it and I'm just wondering if I had more fun because I wasn't so worried about making it work because she was less attractive, or if we genuinely had a better connection than the other two? Difficult to tell the causation on that.
I've been better about not initiating any kind of contact after dates and just waiting few days, and also not trying to invite girls back to my place after first date. Waited 3 days to call the first date, she accepted second date for this week. The second girl ready to go at any time, good plate for the summer probably (bit chunky though hehe). Third girl is a little tricky, was hard to get a read on her but it was a great kiss so we'll see I guess, maybe I should just ignore her entirely and see if she ever initiates contact?
How soon is it generally acceptable to go for the "come over for dinner at my place" date? I'm honestly not trying to push sex early I just get tired of going out to the same bars, doing the same thing for dates and would rather just kick it on the couch or out on the porch with them, not sure what else to do because I get out of work at like 7 PM during the week.
I realize there probably isn't much to comment on here but it's helpful for me to get my thoughts out of my head and keep moving forward. Let me know any feedback or good dates you went on, thanks guys!
date 2 saturday: Fun girl, probably a 5, was all over my nuts, we had some great laughs and prob woulda blown me in the car afterwards but i bailed, texting me all day today.
date 3 today: Was kind of burnt from dates and drinking all weekend but this girl turned out to be pretty sexy, 7 or an 8 I'd say, and I feel as though I was a bit intimidated by the attractiveness (not sure how to rate myself maybe in the 6-7 area, I guess a guys number really just comes down to how big his balls are). Conversation was pretty good I was putting out good kino didn't get much back though. About halfway through the date I went to the bathroom and had to tell myself to stop being a little ***** and just have fun, so maybe recovered a bit. From there I just went with a general i dont give a **** attitude and she gave me a ride home, gave her a real good kiss and she pulled back after several seconds. Wondering if I shoulda pushed that a little further but don't want to be a creep.
The second date seemed like the most fun looking back at it and I'm just wondering if I had more fun because I wasn't so worried about making it work because she was less attractive, or if we genuinely had a better connection than the other two? Difficult to tell the causation on that.
I've been better about not initiating any kind of contact after dates and just waiting few days, and also not trying to invite girls back to my place after first date. Waited 3 days to call the first date, she accepted second date for this week. The second girl ready to go at any time, good plate for the summer probably (bit chunky though hehe). Third girl is a little tricky, was hard to get a read on her but it was a great kiss so we'll see I guess, maybe I should just ignore her entirely and see if she ever initiates contact?
How soon is it generally acceptable to go for the "come over for dinner at my place" date? I'm honestly not trying to push sex early I just get tired of going out to the same bars, doing the same thing for dates and would rather just kick it on the couch or out on the porch with them, not sure what else to do because I get out of work at like 7 PM during the week.
I realize there probably isn't much to comment on here but it's helpful for me to get my thoughts out of my head and keep moving forward. Let me know any feedback or good dates you went on, thanks guys!
