Master Don Juan
- Jan 14, 2018
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Everything you wrote is actually an expansion of this => How you think + how u do things = results.Several thoughts from the old lady:
This gets back to a chicken or egg argument. What comes first? Thought or action? PUA tactics start with actions, as in do "X" and then "Y" will happen. But if by doing the action you never internalize the belief (thought) then eventually your incongruence will show itself and there is no substance behind the facade...and relationships will fail.
You have to understand that a guy like Manson is utterly self serving. He always has been. No concern whatsoever for another human being...uses people strictly as instruments of his grand design and makes no apology whatsoever for that hallmark malign character trait.
PUA tactics are in a self serving vein too. And they work if well executed...to a point and for a while.
Real men who are solid people don't use others in a gratuitous way. They simply ARE.
They don't need machinations, manipulations or drama to manifest their aims. And they are far less influenced by female whims.
Be the Rock and let her be the wind and the tide. She may shape you through time but she will never erode a solid man's core. If a man has no core? Relationships will fail.
Some of the old guard here used to call it the ultimate shjt test. Are you the man you present yourself to be? What makes the answer a resounding yes? What passes the ultimate shjt test? A solid core of character. Commonly referred to as strong Inner Game.
PUA artists who put on the tactics of the techniques without the inner confidence, direction, and solid masculine character?
They are fakes, faux and phonies. Any decent woman will sniff that out soon enough and vanish.
How is it that you get this and the men doesn't ?
A woman gets it and I'm ashamed of the men here.