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Jordan Peterson agrees with nofap

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Everyone man that walks this earth has his flaws, and I don't think we should be listening to anyone without having out own opinions.

As far as nofap goes there are those that overhype it as some miracle cure but I definatley think there's benefits to it, particularly for those who have ben heavy users over an extended period of tine
I am sure Jordan Peterson is a Christian agent to promote Christianity, the Bible, NO FAB, No moving in before marriage etc... etc..

Still... JP makes alot of sense and back his material with statistics/data/results (truth)

Love the Guy... You can agree with him and disagree... The guy is not perfect... Alot of stuff he says I dont agreed with (No Living Together before Marriage, Marriage is a sacred institution and Divorce is not an option, IQ material)

Yet, He make logical arguments with simplicity.

Porn is bad... it influence you to believe Love/Sex is a Movie like Porn (its instant and easy etc...)
No Fab .... Here people believe in it... I agree No FaP will help you have more drive... your D wont be ''sensible to your own hands only''
Girls date up, Guy date down... it's a fact...

etc etc.

OP... NO FAP is part of our DJ BIBLE training....

Anyones have any tips on doing NO FAP? (I wanna stop doing it daily, morning and night... i prefer my hand to women lol)
 

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I'm reviving this one.

Out of interest, I decided to start full 90 days NoFap challenge (No PMO) to check if its worth its fame - as I went pretty much monk/jedi since January (just three dates in this period, walked away from 2 women after first date, third walked away from me) and planning to replug to dating in mid or late April I said to myself "Hell, why not try it for serious?"

It's day 15 and I feel like I was several years younger.
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I plan to use this energy bomb in the spring to pick some nice ladies eventually so wish me luck.
Try increasing your raw food intake if you really want to see some energy results. You don't have to go full retard raw.
Make a kale + fruit smoothie for breakfast. You'll be bouncing.
 

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I broke after 3 weeks it works. I broke it last night cause I was fapping without porn no climax and read that it's worse so I was like I'm going to climax and start again. Day 1 fellas
 

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Between STRs, LTR’s and FWB’s I haven’t had a sexual dry spell of any significance in nearly 15 years. One thing I pride myself on sexually is I always put the effort into pleasing the woman, Making sure she is taken care of anytime we engage in sex. The effort is always worth it whenever I feel like putting it fourth . But that’s not the thing, sometimes I just don’t. Sometimes all I want to do is rub one out effortlessly and get on with my day. So for me fap has its place. My girlfriend and I get busy three or four times a week but I still fap once a week or so. I enjoy looking at porn and seeing what different women look like. Sure I know what a lot of women look like but I will never be able to sleep with them all.
 

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The type of porn I like looking at these days is these so called JOI's or "jerk off instructions" or dirty-talk with mother-son roleplay. Having a sexy older women (i.e. or within role-play the belief of such) on the other side of the screen that appears as an authority figure and gets that it's fun for guys to fap is a huge turn on because I feel understood by someone while I'm fapping. Apart from this, I've virtually lost interest in all other types of porn and even fapping is becoming boring/painful in and of itself if it's done without porn. I think I'll eventually get sick of this too and move on from fapping period. It's just down to this type of porn and escort pics. I'm wondering if I'll ever just get tired of this and move-on rather than keep on discovering another niche type of porn and revitalizing this.
 

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Hate to break it for you but it sounds like you are addicted.
How do you figure that? It doesn't fit a profile of an addiction. First of all, a course of addiction would mean you want stronger types of porn and stronger perversion, not weaker types of porn to where it's borderline weird but non-exploitative stuff. You'd have to spend allot of time on it, not just do this once in a while, or under the bed sheets if you are feeling very horny and lonely. It would also have to affect your real life. I haven't crossed any threshold where this would feel addictive. However, even if it's not addictive, doesn't mean it's not a sin and I'd be concerned, or worried about what God things about this seeing this is a high-stakes spiritual issue. Beyond Jesus, there is no other issue and this is seen as beneficial health-wise since I'm releasing steam, breaking fevers by inducing sweat, getting a mental relief if I feel overwhelmed by financial issues of feeling broke, etc....
 

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The type of porn I like looking at these days is these so called JOI's or "jerk off instructions" or dirty-talk with mother-son roleplay. Having a sexy older women (i.e. or within role-play the belief of such) on the other side of the screen that appears as an authority figure and gets that it's fun for guys to fap is a huge turn on because I feel understood by someone while I'm fapping. Apart from this, I've virtually lost interest in all other types of porn and even fapping is becoming boring/painful in and of itself if it's done without porn. I think I'll eventually get sick of this too and move on from fapping period. It's just down to this type of porn and escort pics. I'm wondering if I'll ever just get tired of this and move-on rather than keep on discovering another niche type of porn and revitalizing this.
What in the literal f*ck
 

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Something else to think about is that if you nofap while inceling, your body is going to make sure that your "ullage pressure" doesn't get too high (a term from my rocket scientist days, LOL).
 

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I like Jordan Peterson, but that doesn't mean I have to agree with everything he says. People shouldn't be placed on pedestals to the point where you think you have to agree with everything they say, that's like mind control or cult level stuff.

As for fapping, I generally think the benefits of completely abstaining are exaggerated, but it should probably be kept to a minimum at least.
 

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I tried it a few weeks, I really think it works. If you're in tune with your senses then you will feel the testosterone boost. It's an energy

I remember one time before I had sex with this one woman I asked her, "can you feel that?"

It was so intense that I didn't even want to have an orgasm with her, because I was afraid I'd lose it
 

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I tried it a few weeks, I really think it works. If you're in tune with your senses then you will feel the testosterone boost. It's an energy

I remember one time before I had sex with this one woman I asked her, "can you feel that?"

It was so intense that I didn't even want to have an orgasm with her, because I was afraid I'd lose it
But her sexual desire adds to you. Its only bad when you submit and jag off with no receptive woman. Your sexual energy is bled out.
 

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I tried it a few weeks, I really think it works. If you're in tune with your senses then you will feel the testosterone boost. It's an energy
I remember one time before I had sex with this one woman I asked her, "can you feel that?"
It was so intense that I didn't even want to have an orgasm with her, because I was afraid I'd lose it
This is the thing that makes no sense to me about NoFap. People complain that masturbation will lower your testosterone. But I see no logical reason why that wouldn't also be true through regular sex with a female. I've read some people say something about absorbing something from the vagina that prevents it, but that makes no sense to me. For that matter, what if you have an orgasm from a girl giving you a handjob? Is that harmful? How about a BJ?

That said, I do think that abstaining from any sort of sex will increase your testosterone - up to a point.
 

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This is the thing that makes no sense to me about NoFap. People complain that masturbation will lower your testosterone. But I see no logical reason why that wouldn't also be true through regular sex with a female. I've read some people say something about absorbing something from the vagina that prevents it, but that makes no sense to me. For that matter, what if you have an orgasm from a girl giving you a handjob? Is that harmful? How about a BJ?

That said, I do think that abstaining from any sort of sex will increase your testosterone - up to a point.
I am curious about this too. I am also curious about the one saying that eating poon Makes a man’s beard grow.
 

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Thought I'd add this as there are still some naysayers saying nofap is a "feminist scheme"

I can't embed the vid but it's on YouTube

He basically says a super stimulus like porn which rewards you with what all males see as the highest priority is a really bad deal and that dudes should steer clear.
Theres a lot of junk science. I want to see actual hard science and psychology on the topic. I like Peterson even if he's trad. RooshV called porn out and the cucky nature of it. Its pleasure Island as JP says. I fapppp. Hell, I've fapped on girl's faces especially college girls. Most women suck at handys lulz

I seen scientific research on the brain under the influence of psychedelic drugs
 

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I am curious about this too. I am also curious about the one saying that eating poon Makes a man’s beard grow.
Lmfao no way.

I never go down on girls. I'm 30. I never will.

I swear on the DJ Bible and book of Pook, I never have to date. Women are disgusting. It seems just straight gay.
 
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