Junior Sanz
Don Juan
Ok so all you DJ'er's out there that have this CONTROL COMPLEX and always need the upper hand in relationships, i have news for you.... IT DOESNT WORK!
if you think you can control a woman the same way you control your pet, you must be dreaming....
so what am i talking about here????? here we go:
SCREENING PHASE of Relationship:
you meet a chic and you guys are hitting it off great. theres a mutual liking for one another and things are going great.....
THEEEENNNNNNNNNN, the tides suddenly SHIFT....
She starts becoming distant and stops returning your calls 3 minutes after you called like she usually did...
all of a sudden, NEEDINESS SYNDROME starts to take action and you become that AFC struggling to hold this chics interest....(the story of my life but luckily im not alone.. ha ha)
what has happened here?
DEFINITE SHIFT IN BALANCE
they way i see it is, MOST GUYS (not all) dont have what it takes to recover the relationship to its previous BALANCED state and will fold and make stupid AFC mistakes, CHASING the Interest of the chic and will ultimately self destruct the whole relationship.
here's the simple RESOLUTION:
when a chics begins to do this.....LET THEM! LET THEM GO! LET THEM GO!!! LET THEM GO!!!!!!
******because if you dont, she got you to the point that you will be sweating her every move. and even if the relationship pans out, SUBCONSCIOUSLY, you will overreact over the little things like when she says, "im going to my girls house tonight to chill" instead of coming to see you.**********
JUST LET THEM GO WHEN THEY START TO PULL AWAY
this will ultimately keep the BALANCE in an indirect way.
(read between the lines here and you will understand)
if she never calls, hey guess what? she did YOU a favor!
POINT IS:
relationships are supposed to be a BALANCED entity. you share mutual trust, love, respect, loyalty etc. with one another.
if you come across a girl who does not believe in this ABANDON SHIP!!!! get out, and get out fast!!! you will be saving yourself plenty of frustration in the long run......
~Joon Balloon
if you think you can control a woman the same way you control your pet, you must be dreaming....
so what am i talking about here????? here we go:
SCREENING PHASE of Relationship:
you meet a chic and you guys are hitting it off great. theres a mutual liking for one another and things are going great.....
THEEEENNNNNNNNNN, the tides suddenly SHIFT....
She starts becoming distant and stops returning your calls 3 minutes after you called like she usually did...
all of a sudden, NEEDINESS SYNDROME starts to take action and you become that AFC struggling to hold this chics interest....(the story of my life but luckily im not alone.. ha ha)
what has happened here?
DEFINITE SHIFT IN BALANCE
they way i see it is, MOST GUYS (not all) dont have what it takes to recover the relationship to its previous BALANCED state and will fold and make stupid AFC mistakes, CHASING the Interest of the chic and will ultimately self destruct the whole relationship.
here's the simple RESOLUTION:
when a chics begins to do this.....LET THEM! LET THEM GO! LET THEM GO!!! LET THEM GO!!!!!!
******because if you dont, she got you to the point that you will be sweating her every move. and even if the relationship pans out, SUBCONSCIOUSLY, you will overreact over the little things like when she says, "im going to my girls house tonight to chill" instead of coming to see you.**********
JUST LET THEM GO WHEN THEY START TO PULL AWAY
this will ultimately keep the BALANCE in an indirect way.
(read between the lines here and you will understand)
if she never calls, hey guess what? she did YOU a favor!
POINT IS:
relationships are supposed to be a BALANCED entity. you share mutual trust, love, respect, loyalty etc. with one another.
if you come across a girl who does not believe in this ABANDON SHIP!!!! get out, and get out fast!!! you will be saving yourself plenty of frustration in the long run......
~Joon Balloon