"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jokes at your expense

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opened a 4 set yesterday, i start teasing the girls, we start role playing - she tihnks shes this big time bully,
shes like "oh lets go" (as in lets go fight)
me: oh bring it, im not scared...

bla bla that goes on-


then it just got turned into all the girls (5 girls) cracking jokes about me at my expense, i was still telling them off, but it was like they listened-compltely ignored it and then made their own.

Kinda felt tooled.

Then after that i listened to Gunwitches advice, dont take jokes at your own expense with a smile, i put the smile away(no smile, not saying anything)
and that made me look like i got serious...girls like oh no hes all sad now he might cry..more laughter....

it stoped after and then we were back to normal... but let me just say call-back humour does work.

So anyway what do you do if they start going off and cracking jokes about you and your doing it too but your being like beta'd and there not ignoring but just continue to pound away with their own jokes.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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but i didnt accept defeat and i stayed in the set- if i walked away that would make me seem like the bigest ***** ever because they were joking around - ahh :( :confused:
 
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