"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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joinning dance lesson is it good or bad?

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Ok, so I got invitation to dance workshops, where I have gone two times, but because they were teaching lots of movements in just 1 hour time, I lagged behind as I never danced in my life before. But I still got a taste of dancing with a woman, so which one comes first? is it the pride or should I just go with the flow? I know demonstration confidence and alpha nature is very important, but could I make an exception for this situation, should I use this place to learn to lead woman?

Normally I feel very occurred around woman, especially the once I like, so would doing this sort of things make me more people friendly and maybe allow opportunities to meet more woman?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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yo same problem here, i've like never danced in my life. but there's this girl that's on dance team, so should i ask her to teach me or something?
 
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Where I live there are free dance lessons before the clubs open. I am learning Salsa, Ballroom, and Swing. I like being paired with someone else who is learning because we can just laugh together at ourselves and our mistakes; it's just fun.

It's also nice because then I am (theoretically) meeting men who:

1. Aren't afraid to try new things and have the discipline to stick with something until they get it right (aren't quitters).

2. Have the physical stamina and discipline to exercise for several hours (not lazy)

3. Know how to put their hand on the small of my back and guide me with real subtlety (I love that). Non-verbal communication skills are a big plus with me. Try watching a tango... you'll see what I mean!

Have FUN!
 
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There were free salsa dancing lessons where I live. It was great. 99% hot puerto rican women and 1% me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I also recommend salsa dancing. Ive been in salsa class for 6 weeks now and it gets better and better.
 
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