So back in Feb I happened to meet two girls on an online dating site who are into group sex, swinging, polyamory & tantric sex, etc.
Recently I went with one to my first private swing party where couples were pairing off and having sex in various rooms of a big house and in the (heated) pool as well. She and I banged each other in front of a group of people and then swapped with another couple. The swapped chick I banged (married woman in her early 30s) was a petite solid HB8 with a body like Jenna Haze. Her husband, who banged the chick who brought me, was a decent looking dude but a 7. The woman who brought me is a 6 at best but is very outgoing and knows how to "close the deal" which is very important at a swing event.
The thing about swing parties, in my extremely limited experience, is that "game" takes a back seat to sheer physical attractiveness and charm.
Physical attractiveness comes first, then charm a relatively close second, then "game" comes up last. However, game is important as I learned when I busted some out to get the HB8. We were standing around hemming and hawing about whether we would swap and then I looked at the girl I came with and said flat out, "This is taking too long, let's find another couple," and we walked off. 3 minutes later the couple found us and suggested we swap.
The thing about the swing event was there is a lot of feeling each other out before a swap takes place. You talk, flirt, etc and then you casually suggest that you'd like to swap and either they confer and agree or they turn you down (usually in search of a more attractive couple).
I thought it would be a free-for-all orgy but there are lots of rules. More rules than with even online chicks I've hooked up with. Lots more. And the swinging itself is not very "polyamorous" because it's usually couples who are in committed relps having fun on a Friday or Saturday night.
Don't go to one where they let single men in. The chances of f*cking a good looking girl are almost zero. You've got to find one or, better, multiple women who are into it and go with them. Since single women get in free and the place charges for couples, you're going to be paying for the two of you.
The thing is, now that I've got these girls and I'll be going to more swing and polyamory functions in the future (knock on wood), the whole standard monogamy-based dating scene (online especially) seems so incredibly boring.
Anyone who has any experiences with it is welcome to share.
Recently I went with one to my first private swing party where couples were pairing off and having sex in various rooms of a big house and in the (heated) pool as well. She and I banged each other in front of a group of people and then swapped with another couple. The swapped chick I banged (married woman in her early 30s) was a petite solid HB8 with a body like Jenna Haze. Her husband, who banged the chick who brought me, was a decent looking dude but a 7. The woman who brought me is a 6 at best but is very outgoing and knows how to "close the deal" which is very important at a swing event.
The thing about swing parties, in my extremely limited experience, is that "game" takes a back seat to sheer physical attractiveness and charm.
Physical attractiveness comes first, then charm a relatively close second, then "game" comes up last. However, game is important as I learned when I busted some out to get the HB8. We were standing around hemming and hawing about whether we would swap and then I looked at the girl I came with and said flat out, "This is taking too long, let's find another couple," and we walked off. 3 minutes later the couple found us and suggested we swap.
The thing about the swing event was there is a lot of feeling each other out before a swap takes place. You talk, flirt, etc and then you casually suggest that you'd like to swap and either they confer and agree or they turn you down (usually in search of a more attractive couple).
I thought it would be a free-for-all orgy but there are lots of rules. More rules than with even online chicks I've hooked up with. Lots more. And the swinging itself is not very "polyamorous" because it's usually couples who are in committed relps having fun on a Friday or Saturday night.
Don't go to one where they let single men in. The chances of f*cking a good looking girl are almost zero. You've got to find one or, better, multiple women who are into it and go with them. Since single women get in free and the place charges for couples, you're going to be paying for the two of you.
The thing is, now that I've got these girls and I'll be going to more swing and polyamory functions in the future (knock on wood), the whole standard monogamy-based dating scene (online especially) seems so incredibly boring.
Anyone who has any experiences with it is welcome to share.
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