"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey guys, just wanted to say Im going back in martial arts after about 4 or 5 years being out of it. Im join the art of bujutsu, which is what was taught to ancient samurai's in feudal Japan. Bujutsu ranges from the teachings of 18-36 different forms of martial arts. I cant wait to see how it turns out...wish me luck :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Which art will you practice specificly..? Bujutsu just means "military ways"

which can describe anything from basic karate to strategies and tactics..

which arts specificly are contained within the school your attending..?

Jin
 

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Originally posted by Jin
Which art will you practice specificly..? Bujutsu just means "military ways"

which can describe anything from basic karate to strategies and tactics..

which arts specificly are contained within the school your attending..?

Jin
lots of thing, thai boxing, akumu grappling, ninjutsu, kobujutsu, jujutsu, Kenpo Karate, Shorin-ryu, & Muho Karate, Wha Sool, Hapkido, Aikijutsu, Kijutsu, Kali / Silat, Yamajutsu, Goshinjutsu Russian System, Ban Thai, Sambo, Kick Boxing, Shoot Fighting, JKD, Thai Boxing, Brazilian Jiujitsu, Vale Tudo, Catch Wrestling, Bando, Kung-fu and Tonweya (Native American Warrior Arts), and Kuai Jiao-Chin Na. lol theres alot
 

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Too wide a scope and you have too little focus.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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to little focus what you mean by that? Its not like what your thinking, they bring aspects of these forms into the class so you can handle everyday situations and actually defend yourself not like the tae kwon do crap. Also you can take private classes in a art of your choice with the Soke or Soke Dai. They invited black belts from neighooring martial arts schools in the area. The freakin green belts at our school didnt have a single problem taking them out.
 

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hes saying you prob won't learn anythin useful while your there as with that many systems in place, all teaching you... you'll never progress far. too much and too many..

traditionaly.. you have a core art... one that is generally suited to you. You spend at least 5-10 years learning the basics, and fundementals of that core art. Then, you go out and study other arts or systems to complete your training. Every competent teacher knows his art cannot teach everything about combat, so he takes you as far as he can and then shows you where you can go from there. even then you should never take more than 1-2 other arts other than your core art.

In a combat situation, all that "training" you'll get at that "dojo" will conflict with eachother... and your mind will be flooded with techniques on how to handle a simple situation or threat. In Japanese philosophy.. its whats called when your mind "stops" and if that happens, which it will if you try to learn all those arts, is you will lose at best and die at worst.

Find one art that you love and stick with it.

Best,

Jin
 
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