"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Joined a pathetic message board? Could I benefit from it at all?

adpreston1988

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Okay, I got bored the other day and somehow ended up at this teen message board (kind of like this one) except it had picture ratings and stuff. I saw a photo of this one hot girl there and decided to become a member. After becoming a member I posted some pics up and got some good feeback about my looks. But I have no idea why the **** I did this. I'm honsetly not that much of a loser and don't know why I started getting addicted to this. Probably because it's an easy way to chat with girls that I've never met before. Anyways, I should get away from this message board ASAP, right?? Or could I benefit from befriending a hot looking girl and getting girl advice from her or something?? Anyways, I know you all are probably cracking up at my pathetic story (and I don't blame you because I think people that do this kind of stuff are losers - yes I did insult myself for doing this). But please give me some feedback.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nononono, I am intrigued.

You are new here right? I can tell, your confidence isn't that great.

Would you like to be a test subject? You seem malleable and adept. You can openly admit feeling pathetic and becoming addicted. Simple packages are the biggest gifts, I hope you believe that, I sure do;)

I wrote you up a 5000 word essay about the possibilities and possible lessons you could gain from this experiment. It is deep, and very DJ oriented.

I hope you are willing to experiment and learn new things. I hope you are willing to work... smart.

First things first, got a series of questions.

One at a time is how I am going to ask them. I don't want any spoiling of the goods. This is active research friend, psychsexual, this is going back to freud. I hope you had fun as a baby saying the words poop and fart, if you did, this may possibly be a grande experimet:)

First question.

What are you becoming addicted to?
 

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I'm hoping that you're being truthful and this isn't some kind of joke so I'll answer you. Basically I'm becoming addicted (haven't yet, since I just joined the other day) of looking to see the members' responses to the photographs that I posted. It's a picture rating thread that you post pictures in and people rate them from a scale of 1-10. I just joined the other day, but now I'm constantly feeling like I have to check on the site to see what people posted about my picture. I'm probably just doing this because I don't get that much attention from girls in school (despite my good looks) and I'm compensating for this by posting pictures online.
 

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Second Question

Do you believe that it really is easier to chat with more women?
 

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Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
Second Question

Do you believe that it really is easier to chat with more women?
I don't understand your question. Chatting with more versus what??
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by adpreston1988
After becoming a member I posted some pics up and got some good feeback about my looks. I'm honsetly not that much of a loser and don't know why I started getting addicted to this. Probably because it's an easy way to chat with girls that I've never met before.
 
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I'll give you some advice. Want women? Get off the PC for a few hours.
 

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If anything, you should teach as many AFC's as possible. As David DeAngelo likes to put it, "The fastest way to learn something is to teach it." Master the concepts and help others to reach the same level you are at. Make sure you get out in the field and share your experience with those that are less experienced than you. That is the fastest and most efficient way to becoming a much more attractive man.

-Damian
 

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Originally posted by Damian
If anything, you should teach as many AFC's as possible. As David DeAngelo likes to put it, "The fastest way to learn something is to teach it." Master the concepts and help others to reach the same level you are at. Make sure you get out in the field and share your experience with those that are less experienced than you. That is the fastest and most efficient way to becoming a much more attractive man.

-Damian
The goods have been spoiled. If I could have related it simply to David D, I would have.

Thank you Damian.

adpreston if you would. Continue with this knowledge in mind, be great...

Do you believe chatting online with women is easier when never having met them before, and could you learn something from them?
 
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