John's Field Reports

[John888]

Ok, so I'm going to start my own log now. I just recently turned single, came out of an 8 year relationship. I did some dating a couple of months back, but now I'm single since 2 weeks.
I'm out of my game and I know it.

Today it's sunday the 1st of Februari. 1 week ago,
friday I brake up with my GF, go out partying with my friends who are both single and are the best wingmen one could wish for
I haven't been to that town for months, where all my old friends live and where I used to party a lot, so you can imagine as I walked in I was boosted with energy and confidence, since this was
"my town", I came into the bar, everybody high-fived me which boosted my status enormously, there were so many girls watching I couldn't even talk to all of them and besides, I still had
a lot of anxiety to actually do something. So as I got more drunk I suddenly see this amazing looking chick, HB9.0 in anyone's standards (blonde) and I recognize her as an old friend of a friend mine. I talk
to her for a while then decide I should talk to my friends, because she seemed kind of interested (she's kind of an attention ***** and she knows she looks really cute and good).

Then later that night I meet her outside in the streets, she says she's got to go to the toilet in another bar, so I decide I wait for her in another bar, by the door to see when she walks by so I
can intercept her. 5 minutes later she walks by and I walk right up to her.
SHE: *puppy eyes, with a red strawberry lolly in her mouth, playing with it with her tongue* "Don't you just love the taste of strawberry lolly*
ME: "Hmmm let me try" *tongueing the lolly myself, then I give it back to her
SHE: *plays with the lolly*
ME: I kiss her right there, on the street, with her femile friend right next to her, she only made it last for 5 seconds, then says she's goto go on or something.

So I act as I don't give a **** and say ok goodbye and walk away, she then starts waving at me and screeming bye bye see you later bye, so I decide she IS still interested, I turn around walk right up to her
looking her straight into her eyes the whole time very confidenly and grab her caveman style and start kissing her again.. again for 5 seconds or something and then I turn around and walk away.

It was at least a kiss, I think I should've let it escelate more, but hey at least I made out since I broke up.

same night, later

Later that night, I keep seeing the same 2 girls in every bar I go to and one of them is looking at me all the time, smiling, ok she wants it. But she's an HB4 or 5. So she's not an HB at all lol.
ANywaY i'm getting drunk, it's late at night, I don't give a damn I jst want to make out so I say something like
ME: **** (don't remember) opener
and as I know she's already really into me I just start making out immidiately..

So this was my first night out since I broke up, made out with 2 girls. Game had nothing to do with it at all, it was just luck and confidence I guess.

next day, saturday I go out again. Yet this night I didn't get anyone's number or made out with noone. I found myself just talking to people, finding myself full of anxiety to seal the deal,
to kiss them. I don't know why...



Next week, thirsday I go out again, lot's of pretty girls and everything, and I was tired as ****, but that shouldn't hold you back should it? I find that when I'm not on top of my game it's
ussualy because I'm tired from the start, but I still really want to go out, just so I can score. I know if you want it too bad it won't work, but still I can't help it, I want it.. It sounds like a
**** excuse, but somehow when I'm tired and I have to fill myself up with red bull & cokes the only thing I can talk about is boring **** like school and where they're from, not whitty at all, unlike
when I'm full of energy pumped up ready to go..
So I find myself just talkign to girls, having boring conversations, not sealing anything. In the end I find myself turning AFC a bit, then I just basicly turn arrogant to make up for it. Neither works, but the latter will
work better then just being AFC.. bwah.



Friday night I go out in the town I made out with 2 girls last week again, with the same buddies. Man I'm still tired, but those guys always boost my confidence and hype me up. We have a great night, I open a lot of
girls, they seem pretty interested, yet I don't want to do anything too early (why? anxiety?). THen one of my buddies calls a girl he's screwing, really a hotty and a slut. She comes over to our bar,
with a friend, pretty uggly, which wants me really bad, but she's just HB4 or something. The hot girl isn't that pretty but she's just radiating pr0n, I don't know how else to put it, when you look at her you just
see SEX. Anyway, I find myself making out with her, my 2 friends also make out with her and we throw her back and forth all 3 kissing with her. Lol.. She then starts telling me how I'm really
the guy she wants, that she's really just interested in me and how she was already hoping to see me and she gets nervous everytime she sees me.
Now I KNOW she's a player, she's a really good damn player and she knows how to manipulate every guy I know... So I tell her she's full of BS and that she's going home with my best friend, who's her ****budduy anyway.
We then back and forth between no I really want you and me telling her she's full of BS, I also tell her I can't make out with her too much, because I feel it sucks for my friend, her **** buddy.
ME: if you want to prove it you're going home with me RIGHT now.
SHE: sorry but I'm here with my friend and I'd really like to, but I can't leave her alone.
SHE: but we can go to another club just the 3 of us (her, her female friend and me) and leave the other guys behind.
So I see this as a test, she's looking to see if I will follow her, if she has control and if I'm willing to leave my friends behind. Now it might be genuine, I might have ****ed up this one, but I tell her if she
wants to leave, leave but I'm not going with her.

end of the night
In the end of the night it turns out she's texting my friend, her ****buddy, if he wants to come over to her place. Exactly like I predicted..

I might have also overplayed the "i'm sorry i can't make out with you, my friend is standing right there", then 5 seconds later kissing her the whole time. It kind of killed the passion and erotisism.
We really had a sexual tension between us in the beginning of hte night, later it just dissapeaered, I think mainly because there was too much talk from my side..

Then in the cab I keep texting her like a freaking AFC and at this time I know what I'm doing and I can see myself ****ing this one up even more, telling her how it turned out exactly like I said.



Saturday night
I really don't want to go out, I just want to sleep, but I go out anyway, because I want to score. So I go out to the town where I have almost no friends and I'm not in my confort zone. I turn out
to be talking to randon girls sometimes, getting nowhere, no escalation, no whitty talk. Just boring bs. Oh yeah the guy whom I was there with had 2 female friends, he made out with 1, pretty hot HB6 or 7 I think
there was some sexual tension between us and some moments I could've kissed her. But I felt bad for my buddy, later I asked him and he said he wouldn't mind .. oh well. The other girl was really fat and bwaaaah and
ofcourse I didn't give her too much attention, just talking to her to be nice, .. and what do you get? She starts wanting me really bad, humping my leg and trying to kiss me but I'm nowhere drunk enough to do that lol.

So I end up doing nothing again this night.



Next report will come from LA, on monday.

 

[John888]

Any and all comments would be really appreciated.

So today I made a complete fool out of myself.

I was flirting with a stewardess all day. In the beginning I was just not giving a ****, so she seemed pretty interested. Then as the day progressed I started to get more thoughts about how we could be together tonight.. so I started wanting her etc. which kinda pushed her away.

Towards the end of the night she was still a bit flirty, but didn't initiate herself and didn't seem too interested anymore.

Then we got to the hotel, I called her room and said I was bored and if she wanted to come watch TV in my room in a way that was really obvious like "Watch TV"...

SHe said no, I asked her if I could borrow some sugar instead. She said no, I'm a really nice guy blablabla but..

So I said Ok whatever and I could just hear myself **** it up even more in the end and so I did.. I said "yeah I called because I really like you" (which is BS! I don't know why I said that) so I immidiately said "ehm well not like that but whatever".

Ans she said well you're really cool for trying and calling me up, that takes a lot of nerves.

Blah.

At least I tried, and I will learn from it> But I'd really rather have liked to have sex.

 

[John888]

We're nearing another weekend. I'll be going out thirsday, friday, saturday. I'll keep you posted

 

[AAAgent]

don't worry bout it bro, just keep on sarging. your doing fine from what it seems, rejections don't mean failure. Failure is when u give up.

you can check out my journal, haven't gotten one hook up recently and everythings turned to sh!t and i have no plates. i rarely find girls im attracted to but hey that's life just keep on living.

 

[John888]

Thirsday
Well today was a pretty ok day. It seems my game is pretty week. All girls that I get are mostly girls that come up to me or want me in the first place.

There was the girl that was already looking at me all night. There was the girl that wanted to make out with me to get back to my friend, I knew, but I was ok with it And the girl with the lollie was ok.

Anyway TODAY...

There was this girl that f*cked a buddy of mine and I added her to facebook. We started chatting and it turns out she was in my primary school.
SHE: why don't you drop by for a cup of coffee (in the middle of the day).
ME: SOrry dont'have time
SHE: you just don't want to..
ME: Ok, if you really want to that bad I'll drop by
SHE: ahw you don't have to if you don't want to
ME: Tell me your address and I'll be there in xxx minutes, I'm going to do some shopping now then I'll be there.

I got there, we chatted for 3 hours and flirted. She was wearing make up etc. all dressed up, so I knew she wanted it. So I kissed her and we f*cked. It was pretty nice. But not that good... so I left at 00:00 to my buddies to party

02:00 am
I got the the party and I was the designated driver, which was a real revelation for me> Because I ussualy drink a lot and get really drunk and girls just look at me funny when I talk to them. But today.. I had real succes. I didn't number close or kiss close. But I had so much girls I flirted with, most I would chat with and there would be real chemistry between us, a lot of flirting I would be talking to them cheeck to cheeck, mouths comming really close to eachother often... but I didn't have the balls to make out with them. It lasted too long and it got ackward / got boring so I went away every time.
But what I noticed is that being sober, I got a lot more response and I picked up a lot more body language and my game was much stronger.

I dont'ask for numbers ussualy, until after I make out with girls, because if you don't make out with them first, in my eyes there isn't a lot of reason for you to meet or whatever.

So I'll illustrate 3 girls that I was talking to:
girl 1
Me and my buddy started pointing to a girl that was like 6 feet away from us, really obvious even while she was looking. So I went up to her
ME: Hey we were just talking about your great smile (she was having lots of fun and smiling)
SHE: Oh thnx, but you're like the 100th guy tonight that tells me that I have a cute smile
ME: DId I say cute? We were talking about your smile..
*at this time I was standing right up to her, faces really close, looking eachother in the eyes the whole time... hmmm I should've gone in for the kiss I think, but there was no comfort yet, it went straight from attraction to maybe seduction (which I didn't). It was like that with all girls.*
SHE: hihihi yeah I guess
ME: Sorry I'm shutting off your GF, let me introduce myself (wrong move)
ME: So what are you drinking
SHE: blablabla, so my shirt doesn't get stains
ME: blaablabla about the shirt and the drink
ME: What do you study?
SHE: the language that is spoken in this country..
ME: Well that's not a lot of use, 93% of the conversation is body language anyway.. .like I could be talking to you saying pure rubbish but looking you in the eyes like this comming closer..
*At this time we were still flirting a lot and she seeemed really interested*
*Until she pushed me away when I got really close, smiling about it a bit, it might be a game, a **** test, but I didn't feel like putting too much effort into it*
ME: You're pushing me away? Now you see that's body language in itself blablabla (wrong line)
So a bit later I came closer again and she pushed me away again and I left.

girl 2
We high fived a girl to started talkign to her
SHE: Is that a pickup line?
ME: No it's not a line, I just high fived you
SHE: do you do that to all girls or am I first?
ME: NO sorry you're second, you see I just high fived my buddy and then I high fived you, why? What would be the problem?
SHE: Well I wouldn't be special if you did that to all girls..
*Again we were standing really close, almost cheeck to cheeck, mouths pretty close to eachother. SHe was kinoing me by touching my arm, my back and my neck while talking to me*
.... Now I COULD have gone in for the kiss again, since we were still in the attraction phase, but there was soo much attraction that we could've just skipped all the comfort phase. It just seems to get really exciting with girls in the attraction phase, then in the comfort phase all the attraction just sips away as it gets more boring.
ME: blablbla random bull**** about her friends, my friends
SHE: blalbabla back.
The moment was gone and I left.

girl 3
By far the cutest girl in the whole night. HB7 or 8. Blonde, blue eyes, exactly my type. This was a girl I was REALLY attracted to, the rest, even the girl I ****ed, I didn't really like lol. I just wanted to score.
So I go up to her and use J0n's line, I've seen it a lot on the internet and it works pretty well.
ME: So I saw you from over there and you look pretty cute, so I just wanted to come talk to you. You seemed pretty bored, are you in for some fun?
SHE: *got really uncomfortable, in a good way, like nervous* Oh hi hihihi thnx hihihi.
*AGAIN we were standing against each other, cheecks touching eachother, looking eachother in the eyes, I kino her, she likes it... SHOULD I HAVE GONE IN FOR THE KISS???? the whole comfort phase afterwards kind of ruined it.*
ME: talk about her,her GF, the place, where I'm from , blablabla.
Sooooo There was a lot of attraction, her friend was really bored
ME: Oh I come over here to get you not bored and now you're friend is bored (WTF)
She: yeah
ME: I'm sorry I don't have a cute friend with me lol (WHY APOLOGIZE?)
SHE: yeah too bad hihihi
Then her friend wants to leave, to walk around the bar sooo in stead of just finding it OK or making a move I try to keep her here, kinoing a lot... WRONG.
Later my friends want to leave and I meet her in the club, we talk some more, but now It's more of a drag, the moment is gone, I still try to kiss her, but she kind of rejects, I ask her for her number
SHE: Why? You don't live around here anyway so when are you gonna call me?
ME: Well I'm here this weekend..
SHE:....
ME: Whatever if you don't want to give me your number then fine, bla.

I leave.

You see the attraction is not the problem. There is a lot of it, when I start talking> And maybe my strong point is that and I should make a move.. though most girls I think might not do it.. or do they? They're drunk, I'm sober.. well the last girl was sober too. But then the comfort ruins it and then I have to rebuild it in the seduction phase, which is harder then even starting talking to her in the first place, because then there's this instant attraction.

Are they just teasing me with the flirting? Is my comfo just too boring? I know.. some days I'm whitty, but that's rare... ussualy I find myself trapped asking boring stuff.

The girls I do make out with I do it ussualy in the first few seconds, they're probably drunk. Whatever.

ANyeone got some tips? I could really use some.

THnx

 

[John888]

We were intertwined, it was crazy! Primitive sexual instincts took over and both of us confessed we had never ever experienced anything like this excitement.

Now let me tell you how the night ended like this.

It was a great night, it all started with me going to my buddies in the best party town of this country.

First approach was to a blonde girl, blue eyes, my taste. She was looking at me the whole night and while talking to a buddy of mine I kept having eye contact with her and she seemed very interested. So I walked up to her and I'm thinking I"m gona say
"Hey I saw you form over there and I think you're cute etc." But when I get to her I say:
ME: Hey weren't you here yesterday?
SHE: Wow, just just said "hey do I know you from somewhere"
ME: No seriously, I think we talked yesterday. And I think I wanted to say you were very cute, but in the last moment I thougth I recognized you.
SHE: Well I wasn't here and If you talked to me and thought I was so cute, wouldn't you remember me?
ME: True anyway blablabla
I made it worst, it went downhill from there.
ME: Ok let's start over, this is going so bad.
SHE: Yeah that seems like a good idea, go over there and walk back and try over.
*She was smiling pretty cute and I know she was very interested. This however was a **** test and she wanted to see if she could pull my strings*
ME: No way, you're trying to pull my strings
SHE: Hahahha yeah ok that's true lol Smile
ME: *some **** that took it downhill again*
SHE: How many drinks did you have? wtf
ME: Only 1... lol
ME: I know what I know you form, you seem to look like a girl from my primary school whom I had a huge crush on!
SHE: *smiling, blushing* ooooh ok! THat'snice
ME: I don't know if it's a compliment or not, but you do look like her...
SHE: WHAT you think it's not a compliment? Wtf kind of remark is that then?
ME: *shrugs* Wow I haven't had an approach this bad before. Whatever I don't care
SHE: What? You don't care, well you couldn't have made it worst buddy
ME: Lol wtf well I AM socially normal and am able to act socially normal lol.
I walked away eventually as I didn't see this .going anywhere. Meanwhile my buddy talks to her GF and she says that I should just make out with blonde girl, because she really likes me. Wow .... I had an open goal and missed the shot lol. I didn't have to do anything except just let her lik eme and make out with her.
This proves a valuable lesson that a someone has told me before:
A GIRL DECIDES IN THE FIRST SECOND IF SHE WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU & ALL YOU CAN DO IS **** IT UP

Second bar
From the valley you can only go up hill.
We got into a bar where my buddy met two ****buddies of his. Let's call them kinkygirl & easygirl.
These girls have in the past also made out with eachother a couple of times & I have made out with kinkygirl (because she wanted to make him jalous, I knew but I was ok with it). So when we arrived there was already a lot of sexual tension in the air
We walked around and to my surprise I see this hot girl, blond hair blue eyes, petite, let's call her petiteblondegirl which I recognize as a girl I kissed 1 year ago... So I walk up to her and say
ME: heyyyy xxxxx(name)
SHE: heeey! xxx(myname)!
Now I almost never remember names of girls I don't make out with, but since I write all the ones down I do make out with I remembered her name lol.
ME: Wow how did you remember my name?
SHE: Well I checked your facebook 2 weeks ago and looked at your profile again (IOI!) (today I noticed we're not even friends on fb)
So we chatted a while, me petiteblondegirl, kinkygirl and easygirl. Now I know easygirl was also interested in me, because she just wants to make out with everybody lol. So I was kino-ing all 3 of them and my social status went trough the roof, also for petiteblondgirl, because I hadn't seen her for a while. After a while I kind of ignored her because a couple of guys started talking to her. Now I think it's the best tactic to NOT defend her or try to steal her, instead just ignore the guys, talk to some girls yourself liek you don't care you're not afraid of loosing her. AFter a while we got tired of this place so we went to another bar and asked her to come with us, but I wasn't gonna wait, I'd see her there. That way I'd know she was really interested if she came. She was already telling me she was also going to come.

In the new club we danced, talked to some girls, made fun and we met another ****buddy of my buddy, other****buddygirl, which I tried to make out with ont he dancefloor, but she refused (reputation).
SHE: *pushing me away* What are you doing?
ME: You know very well what I'm doing
SHE: *weird look*
ME: You're not gonna get too boring are you? I wanna have fun.
SHE: blablabla not on the dancefloor
ME: Whatever... and I go on dancing like nothing happened and ignored her.

SO the petiteblondegirl comes in and we flirt a lot but she seems distant nontheless.. like she didn't make any initiative to come closer or make a move.. Now I decide to not put too much effort into her, except talk to her now and then since I want HER to make a move and show interest in me> We ARE both flirting.

Once we're in another bar my buddy is hitting on petiteblondegirl (whom I want) and I'm talking to easygirl (his ****buddy).
EAsygirl: Ok let's make a deal, if they make out we should make out too. I'll take you home too and don't worry I'll put you on the bus tomorrow.
ME: *After hesitating a bit(play)* OK
ME: So do we HAVE to wait until... *MAKE OUT IWTH EASYGIRL*
*we make out irhgt in front of my buddy*
And he's standing all alone now. SO he texts other****buddygirl to come over. I go to the bar to order a drink and I see other****buddygirl come in and talk to her. I explain the whole situation about my buddy hitting on petiteblondegilr and me making out with easygirl and she's a really cool girl so I don't care if she knows and she'll only digg it. She shows interest and wants to make out with me (I think) and I go to petiteblondgirl because she's standign all alone.
I go up to her
ME: *While grabbing her hands, putting them behind my back, comming closer to her, standing with my body against hers* I think you're a big tease (in an angry voice)
SHE: Why?
ME: Well You shouw me interest, and you're flirting with me and you'r enot making any move. I'm sick of it, I don't want to play games. Whatever
She: Oh but I'm not like that...
ME: What?
SHE: Well I do like you, but I goto test guys you see
ME: Why
SHE: Well a lot of guys come up to me and I have to test them to see... for you there are 10 other guys.. I don't mean that wrong
ME: Well whatever, listen you either want me or you don't and you can choose right now. I don't want to play games. For you there are also a couple of other gilrs here I can choose.
SHE: Well... I don't do anything on the first day
ME: Well I'd like to take you out etc. but I don't have time for that. I'm only here for one night and that's tonight. We either gonna have fun and you choose or we're not.
* Comes closer to her and we're both smiling flirting, Makes out with petiteblondegirl*

Me after a while:
ME: Ok I like this and I want to go home whit you, or you can go home wiht me, but you have to know one thing
SHE: What?
ME: Well I don't go to bed with a girl on a first date.
SHE: What?
ME: Yeah I LOOOOVVVEEE to make out and mess around, but ****ing.
SHE: Oh well we can't do anything anyways because you know.. .not today (period)
ME: Ok that's cool lol
*I was just ****ing around*

I did later that night get into a big fight with her again about not trusting her and she didn't trust me or whatever. I kept hanging on to my role of I don't care, you choose what you want to do. it's easy either you want me or not. No games, no ****ing around, I'm sick of this. Choose bla.

She did go home with me and we had the best sex ever. We only did hand stuff but it was better than 90% of the sex I've had. We brought something out in eachother we had never experienced before. It was crazy. We got so excited, so lusty... wtf. After a while she asks me wow is this normal? I'm: "no this is not normal" It was the kind of passion and sex you see in movies, no hardcore stuff, but really erotic and full of passion... crazy like we knew eachother for ages. Now outside of sex we're kind of uncomfortable with eachother, like really carefull... cautious. But once we're making out and in bed it's like we were taken over by primary instincts.

She even started to talk about fate etc. Now I kept my mouth shut since i didn't want to spoil anything and I didn't want to give m opinion about that lol. It was good to know she thoguth it was cool too.

I still don't understand how I ****ed up that first approach soo much. Lol she gave me her number in the end (the first approach girl) and said "It WAS really nice to meet you by the way".
I texted her later that night and said come over here we're herexxx. But she didn't respond.

After all it was a good night and we had lots of fun

 

[John888]

thirsday
So yesterday I went out, I was really tired and there were some easy girls. I felt I wasn't in my element. Girls were throwing me IOI's but I couldn't handle it. I just wanted to chill. I couldn't have fun. I'll make out with them next time

So friday I went out to a birthday party. There were a couple of girls, 1 HB with a boyfriend who was not there and one not so HB who was single. I talked to everyone there, had pretty good social status and I ended up tlaking to the HB the most..
We had a pretty good conversation about everything, flirting back and forth the whole time, i started kinoing her and then told her that in the house we were in there was something weird in the attic; there was a peep hole in the floor to see the bedroom below (there is!). SO I told her I was going to check it out. I had at that time told her let's stand there and let's go there and she followed me the whole time, so I was pretty sure she'd follo wme again with the curiosity. We went upstairs and she looked trough the whole, looked around the room and I stood between her and the stairs to go down, I started kissing her, but she kind of pulled away. I kissed her neck and she went crazy> We started grinding and she told me she wanted to feel me inside her etc. but we couldn't because she had a BF.
The next half hour we spend kind of kissing and almost kissing and she said she had to go otherwise she'd **** me lol. Anyway I tried keeping her there and pulling her towards the bedroom,.. but she was too in control of her emiotons and went home.
Pretty good anyway, she looked me up on FB and told me we had a great exciting night.

Saturday
I really wanted to go out, but noone went, because it's valentine etc.
Anyway I went by myself and met someone from my previous school and we talked in the club. I didn't approach anyone and I was just about to leave when a girl walked past me with her friends
SHE: Hey it's Hollister! *I live in Europe and we don't have that here, so it's pretty cool if you wear it here*
ME: Eh wat? How doy ou know it?
SHE: Well I've been to the US a lot blablabla how did you get it?
ME: I travel there a lot for my job lol Wink *pilot*
SHE: *thought it was pretty cool*
and I'm 26, she's 18 I found out. But I really started to like her a lot and I thought o **** I'm going to act AFC so I asked her do you want something to drink? (****) and she said yea so we went to a bar and we got something to drink.. her friends were staning next to her and I also talked to them a bit, they said they'd walk around. The HB said she'd talk to me and stay around.
talking went pretty good, some pretty good flirting with the eyes, she played with her hair, I started kinoing her, I grabbed her from behind and pushed her against me, we were talkign with cheeck against cheeck and so I kissed her.
The kissing wasn't really passionate, pretty weird. She took it really easy, just small kisses I was like WTF. SO I asked her *SUTPID* what's up? You dont'lke to kiss in a club? blablabla she started laughing and just said take it easy and I said I thought it was good she said that. ANyway I was kissing her pretty relaxed and most girls want it more passionate then what I did with her so it was pretty weird.

Anyway she ended up going to her friends and some other guys were ****ing around. They started talkign to her. I interupted them, talking to her. Acted like I didn't give a **** and I didn't care about them, but they were being clowns. Her friends wanted to leave to another room so I said ok I'll see you later, one of her friends looked and me and shook her haid and said no go with us pointing at the HB. AT this time I thought OK I *SHOULD* do my own thing and not listen to the HB's friend. But I did.. and I went with them, she ended up not giving me too much atteention so in the end I Just went away.

Then later I met her at the exit of the club, I said hey, stood by her like ok you should give me some attention now, she didn't and I was like well your loss (I didn't tell her, but I want a girl to put some effort into me). Told her come here for a sec
ME:Listen if you want to take me home ,I at least want you to put some effort into me
SHE: What? Oh you're a great guy and we click but..
ME: OK never mind, I understand wtf you don't have to apologize. You're not interested.
SHE: Yeah but.. I just don't know if I like you enough in just 1 day, it ussualy takes me longer.
ME: No I thought you just didn't have the guts to ask me home, so that's why I said that.. but you just don't wanna so it's ok I don't care
*As I said I don't care she looked surprised like oh wtf, but I think that was good* ANd I said bye she gave me 3 kisses on the cheeck. I was fed up with this at this point I grabbed her caveman style and gave her a kiss on the lips. She was surprised and it really didn't do any good.

I got her number, but I don't think I'm going to text her, because I think I have too little going with this girl.

I think my game really sucks. All the girls I seem to get are girls that throw themselves at me, or want me from the start and the only thing I do is to not **** it up. Other times I just **** it up. ANd approaches that I do ussualy don't end with success.

There's still a girl that's texting me to drop by to **** which I did a while back, she was the one who wanted me to drop by. Then there's the girl from last week with whom I had a really passionate night and great sex, she texted me that she really wants to meet me again, which I want, but I live to far away, so I kind of didn't respond to that and took some distance. Which is good I think.

Hope I do better next time and do some freakin approaches.

Oh yeah there was 1 other approach.
I walked up to a girl wearing a scarf and asked her wtf aren't you really warm with this thing on.. (bad opener)
SHE: What? *loud*
At this point I was sstanding right up to her and against her and looked her in the eyes, there was some good flirting now and she liked it. I then kept going on that opener and talked about the scarf, while I should've just shut up and danced, or talked about something else.
Being stuck on the opener, she just laughed and it went nowhere, I left.

So what I notice is that most of hte times that I approach there's definately attraction, then I **** it up later with the talking. Lol.. and the follow up.

When I make out with a girl, I USSUALY take her home or meet her again another time. WHen I DO meet them again / **** them / take them home they want more, so that's good.

It's just getting there that's the problem.