"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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JohnChops Smashing Social Anxiety Journal!

JohnChops

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Alrighty so heres my FR for last night. I never truly understood social proof until last night.

We and my buddy hit up a club and as soon as i walk in i start to make friends with everyone around me, the bouncers, bartenders, i was talking to everyone. This got me in a social mood and all the girls saw that i was friends with the bouncers, thats a win right there. So im like enough talking, time to take action. First girl didnt want to dance, said she had a BF but she was nice about so i didnt mind.

The third girl i danced with was giving me so much kino, grinding really hard. So she moves the hair around her neck, i kiss her neck and before i could spin her around she spins me around and we start making out. I didnt grab her number or anything because those usually dont become anything but it was fun either way.

After that we hit up a strip club just for ****s. I swear all these strippers must be used to guys falling all over them and i was just chilling and relaxing waiting for 2 girls to text me back so me and my buddy could go grab them (by now its 330am ). So strippers kept coming up to me asking me "do you want a dance baby, do you wana go play?" So i decided to be a **** and said "touching me is 10$ babe. Better pay up before i go get the bouncers :p "

Just had the most shocked look on her face and said "oh youre so expensive!" and walked away.

So these girls text me back, theyre drunk and were drunk so we grab a taxi back to whereever they were, at one of their friends houses, and go and grab them. PRoblem: they fvcking fell asleep. I tried to call them but no avail. So we said fvck it and went home and ended the night at 430.

Over all really good and fun night, i was social as hell and kept it up all night which im most happy about.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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