Look at the hair.
http://www.medaloffreedom.com/BillClinton_Jackie_JohnJr_CarolineKennedy.jpg
Tre'ahh
http://www.medaloffreedom.com/BillClinton_Jackie_JohnJr_CarolineKennedy.jpg
Tre'ahh
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I still think she looks like the exorcistrussian2 said:^thats JFK's wife....
That must be you with the bewildered look in the background. I can see why you envy his hair.Snowman23 said:The lady on the left is his sister, the one in the middle his mother.
His wife was Carolyn Bessette.
http://i267.photobucket.com/albums/ii307/misskell02/attachment-2-1.jpg
His hair looks kick-ass in this picture.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You do know she WAS somethin' else back in the day, right? JFK was a lucky dude. But then again, the guy had so much sex he put Clinton to shame...HandyAndy said:I still think she looks like the exorcist![]()