Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
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It is his guest speaking not himJoe Rogan speaking on the lives of normal people is like normal people speaking on the life of Joe Rogan, both parties have short sighted insights into what they are talking about.
I listen to JRE all the time he's constantly commenting on the lives of normal people, I mean he's a comedian, I get it, but I feel the guy is much more of an out of touch millionaire than comedian at this point.It is his guest speaking not him
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
1. His guest did the speakingI listen to JRE all the time he's constantly commenting on the lives of normal people, I mean he's a comedian, I get it, but I feel the guy is much more of an out of touch millionaire than comedian at this point.
Just don't tell him that
That's cool but I was talking about in general, notice how I used the term "All the time" I used that term to describe listening outside of what you posted1. His guest did the speaking
2. The story was quite good. It is basically what Buddha did. Actually it describes our lives.
Ok fair enough.That's cool but I was talking about in general, notice how I used the term "All the time" I used that term to describe listening outside of what you posted
To bring it back to your other post, what made Buddha special to begin with was that he came from privilege and saw poverty, Joe openly speaks about coming from a sense of poverty, but Joe has literally been a millionaire since Fear Factor, if he was similar to Buddha he could of retired on that money because he'd be living the life of a normal person, clearly based on his work ethic he either is just not a normal person or has a lifestyle that requires a large amount of money and like you said guy seems fairly normal.Ok fair enough.
Even on that one I would say he is not that special. He is loved because he is quite basic.
What makes Buddha and Joe normal is that it is the story that most people face. That is at least the theory in the vid. It is that our emotions want to explore the world and then try to come back to reason. It is the archetype of strory telling according to the Richie guy.To bring it back to your other post, what made Buddha special to begin with was that he came from privilege and saw poverty, Joe openly speaks about coming from a sense of poverty, but Joe has literally been a millionaire since Fear Factor, if he was similar to Buddha he could of retired on that money because he'd be living the life of a normal person, clearly based on his work ethic he either is just not a normal person or has a lifestyle that requires a large amount of money and like you said guy seems fairly normal.
I think many people side with Joe right now because left wing media is portraying him as a right wing extremist supporter, I view him as more of a centrist at times but he used to play heavily into leftist narratives until critical thought was introduced on his podcast.
People watched him in the beginning because there was an air of shock jockery but watch episode 1 and watch recent episodes I mean he's not the same person, I find his show entertaining purely for his guests, anything he has said has almost unquestionably been said before, it almost bothers me when a guest is grilled for interrupting him outside of the great interrupter
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.