"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jocca's Workout journal

jocca

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Friday

Abs:

four sets
100 normal situps
75 bicycle situps
35 scizzor situps
25 non weighted leg raises
with 2 min breaks decreasing by 30 seconds upon each break( 2mins, 1:30, 1 min)


Saturday:

2x8 70 kgs bench
4x20 dips
1x5 60kgs squats
4x5 75kgs squat
dumbell curls 3x5 15 kgs
chinups 5x8
4x5 90 kgs bench new pb!
4x10 single arm rows 32kgs
shoulder press 10x3 15kgs

hamstring stretches 2x10 mins per leg
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sunday:

abs:
300 bicycle situps
200 normal situps
25 leg raises

cardio:
3k run

hamstring stretches 2x10 mins per leg
 

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Tuesday:

3x8 70 kgs bench
3x20 dips
1x5 60kgs squats
3x5 75kgs squat
dumbell curls 3x5 15 kgs
chinups 5x10
3x5 90 kgs bench new pb!
4x10 single arm rows 32kgs


meal one: tunna + bannanas

meal two: steak sub and two cookies

meal three: steak with plenty of veggies
 

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Thursday:

3x8 70 kgs bench
4x20 dips
1x5 60kgs squats
3x5 75kgs squat
dumbell curls 4x7 15 kgs
chinups 5x8
3x5 90 kgs bench
4x10 single arm rows 32kgs

monday:

cardio

2.5k run

abs:
three sets
100 normal situps
75 bicycle situps
35 scizzor situps
25 non weighted leg raises
with 2 min breaks decreasing by 30 seconds upon each break( 2mins, 1:30, 1 min)

hamstring stretches 10 mins per leg

meal one: fruit bowl, wheatbix, toast, milo

meal two: salad sandwhiches with ham, lettuce, tomato, avocado on whole grain bread

meal three: tacos (terrible I know)
 

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good stuff

fix that diet man.

I just spent an hour and a half cooking up 8 chicken breasts, 2kgs of steak, and steaming 8 cups of broccoli.

Hard to eat crap food when my fridge is filled top to bottom with steak/eggs/chicken/tuna/cottage cheese/vegetables/fruit.

START PREPARING FOOD!:cuss:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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yeah I know man. Have nowhere near the time at the moment though, Uni's way to hectic at the moment. Cant wait for exams to be over so I can get back into the physical aspect of my health
 

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Finally free of uni exams and ready to attack the physical aspect of my health again

monday:

cardio

2.5k run

abs:
three sets
100 normal situps
75 bicycle situps
35 scizzor situps
25 non weighted leg raises
with 2 min breaks decreasing by 30 seconds upon each break( 2mins, 1:30, 1 min)
and to finish 100 bicycle situps

hamstring stretches 10 mins per leg

meal one: wheatbix, toast, milo

meal two: two salad breadrolls with ham, lettuce, tomato, avocado, beatroot

meal three: steak and heaps of veggies
 

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Wednesday:

cardio:
4.5 k run

abs:
200 bicycle situps



hamstring stretches 10 mins per leg
 

Neubie

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you're heaapps siickk ayyyy

haha, seriously though, nice job keep it up man!
 

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Thursday:

3x8 74 kgs bench
4x21 75kg lat pulldowns
4x20 dips
dumbell curls 3x5 15 kgs
3x4 90 kgs bench
3x10 single arm bentover rows 32kgs
100 bicycle situps

hamstring stretches 2x10 mins per leg

cardio:
tennis for 3 hours
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Saturday:

Gym:

4x6 17kg chest flys
4x21 75 kg latpulldowns
3x20 dips
4x7 75 kg bench
3x5 17kg arnold curls
3x8 chinups

Sunday:

cardio:

3x 2mins boxing
3x 2mins bike
3x 2mins skipping
3x10 burpees

abs
100 bicycle situps

monday:

cardio

4.5k run

abs:
three sets
100 normal situps
75 bicycle situps
35 scizzor situps
25 non weighted leg raises
with 2 min breaks decreasing by 30 seconds upon each break( 2mins, 1:30, 1 min)
and to finish 100 bicycle situps

hamstring stretches 10 mins per leg
 

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Tuesday:

2x8 65 kgs bench
4x21 75kg lat pulldowns
3x20 dips
3x5 65kgs squats
dumbell curls 3x5 15 kgs
chinups 3x7
4x5 90 kgs bench
3x10 single arm rows 32kgs
chest flys 4x6 17kg dumbells per arm
150 bicycle situps
100 normal situps


hamstring stretches 2x10 mins per leg


meal one: toast with wheetbix
meal two: tunna
meal three: 2 cheese, ham, lettuce, tomato, beetroot, carrot breadrolls
meal four: shake
meal five: corned beef and veggies
 

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abs:
three sets
100 normal situps
75 bicycle situps
35 scizzor situps
25 non weighted leg raises
with 2 min breaks decreasing by 30 seconds upon each break( 2mins, 1:30, 1 min)
100 bicycle situps
50 normal situps

hamstring stretches 10 mins per leg

Cardio:

3.5k run

meal one: toast and milo
meal two: two bread rolls with , carrot, beetroot, ham, cheese, lettuce, tomato
meal three: corned beef with heaps of veggies
 

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Thursday

gym

2x8 65 kgs bench
4x21 75kg lat pulldowns
3x20 dips
dumbell curls 3x5 15 kgs
chinups 3x7
4x5 90 kgs bench
3x10 single arm rows 32kgs
chest flys 4x6 17kg dumbells per arm
 

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Just thought I should add a final post here as im not going to be continuing this log anymore.

I've just recently completed writting a four month program which I feel will help me to achieve my goals at a far more efficient rate.

said program contains gym routines shoulder press, leg press, lat pulldowns, squats , bench , deadifts, curls, chinups, open chest flys, peck deck, single arm rows, double arm rows, 21's, arnold press, dips.

It also contains stretches, cardio (bike sessions, boxersize, runs, sprint sessions, swim sessions) ab sessions( scizzor situps, normal situps, twister situps, leg raises weighted and nonweighted, bycicle and a program called shaolin abs) as well as a rigorous diet program for the entire 16 weeks.

so thanks all for the help peace out

Jocca
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just thought I'd add a post here again. Cant believe how much I've improved.

New records and sets are as follows

Bench 4x6 125kgs
squats 4x5 125 kgs
deads 4x 5 100kgs
pullups (underhand full extension) 6x30
chinups( overhand full extension) 5x15
single arm rows 5x15 40kgs
double arm rows 5 x 15 60kgs
calf raises 5x 20 105 kgs
arnold press 6x15 17kgs
dips 10x 35
lat pull downs 6x45 75kgs
peck deck 7x 10 75 kgs
curls 6x20 17kgs
standing flys 8x20 12kgs
open chest flys 7x15 17kgs
tricep press 7x15 20kgs
Situps 1167
pushups 167
3 k time: 11:20
100 time: 11.27
200 time: 22.7
400 time: 49.47
800 time: 2mins 7 secs
burpees 100 in 10 min 5

Current weight - 84 kgs
height - 6 ft exact
 
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