"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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gambit21680

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what kind of jobs are out there that someone like me can get with no college degree but alot of retail exp?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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gambit21680

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retail is my only option and i was wondering what is the best store to work at for money and promotions?
 

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WOW, WHAT A GUY, TAKE NOTES FROM THIS GUY PEOPLE.

We all wish we could be one day as ambitious as you.
 
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listen to the shez...he usually is right on the money.


Cruize up to your local city office they will have more options than you know what to do with. Believe me the gov. wants you working.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i don't have time to go on their list and wait almost a year to hear from them i am 25 and going to get married in 2007. The only thing left is to go into retail and i heard that people can live off of retail. i was thinking about something like a managers position at old navy or home depot or stop and shop
 

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Originally posted by gambit21680
i don't have time to go on their list and wait almost a year to hear from them i am 25 and going to get married in 2007. The only thing left is to go into retail and i heard that people can live off of retail. i was thinking about something like a managers position at old navy or home depot or stop and shop
do something with your life. dont settle for some ****y managerial position at an old navy. come on man... strive for something.
 

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That really is quitter talk. Where will you be if you work at old navy for 15 years? right there at old navy, same store. Also, you can do multiple things at once. You can work and look for a new job at the same time.

you would have better luck working at UPS (and don't say you can't a job here) and people can work their way up the depth chart.

Electricians, plumbers, contractors, etc. do well. Or a police/fire dept position. there are so many possibilities it seems unreasonable to say." I can only do retail."
 

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dude whatever you do please don't go into retail, at least TRY to make a better income......you WILL regret working in retail, I have yet to work for anyone in this area that is happy/confident
 
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