"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jobs? Work? Goals?

thedol

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What do you guys do here?

I'm a Designer/Programmer. I'm always thinking of the next new thing, and always thinking of some idea to hustle on the side, eg. come up with an interesting app taking into account my interests.

I also live in the gym with a goal to appear on fitness magazines covers - I'm in the gym 5/days a week.

I had many people coming to me saying I should train people as I get lots of people asking me how I do this and how I do that.

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What do you guys do here? Anyone here have their own business?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Quiksilver

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What do you guys do for a living? - thread started by JCballin88

Regarding goals?

Within 12 months:

Bachelor of International Business
Diploma of Financial Services
Financial Services Degree

Bench 245lbs for 3 sets of 5 reps.
Squat 360lbs for 3 sets of 5 reps.
Deadlift 405lbs for 3 sets of 5 reps.
Military Press 185lbs for 3 sets of 5 reps.
10 widegrip pullups, weighted with 25lbs.
Get down to and maintain 12% bodyfat year-round.

Within 24 months:

Full-time job in Financial Services with salary around $70,000-$80,000.
Semi-fluent in Mandarin, Spanish and French.

Within 48 months:

Salary in todays dollars of $125,000.
Have $80,000 in cash to purchase a $400,000 house to rent to 3 people.
Have a long-term relationship with a hot and cool woman.
Fluent in Mandarin, Spanish, French. Attain a Language Major
Shoot a quarter at 1000 yards with a .308.

Within 15 years:

Have my investments earn an annual net profit of $100,000.

Within 20 years:

Build a business in the industry of my choosing based upon life experience and my natural gift of creativity.

Within 25 years:

Retire to a small island in the South Pacific or a large acreage in the Swiss Alps. Or both.

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Don't know how children will affect this plan.
 

AAAgent

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Hey Quiksilver,

I work in financial services and have alot of contacts with bankers. If you shoot me a pm i'd be glad to help you.


1year goal
Break into Ibanking
fight in my first amateur boxing match
start my business
become financially stable

2-4 year goal
move to HK
Salary above $100,000
expand my business
pay off all my debt/loans
start an organization to push for cultural innovation and creativity in China
 
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