"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Jobs/Careers and Women

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What kind of jobs do women prefer that men have? The obvious answer is "ones that make a lot of money."

I'm wondering because my life seems steered towards a blue collar career and I'm wondering that since white collar jobs seem more valued in society today, if that will negatively effect my future dating life.

Not that my dating/sex life isn't in the toilet now, but I'm working on changing that.

Out of curiosity, what is it that you, the frequent posters on this board, do for a living?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Effington

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You shouldn't have any problems dating just because you are going blue collar, there's nothing wrong at all with that. If a girl is less interested in you because of the number of zeroes on your paycheck, then she's doing you a favor by leaving you be.

Personally, I'm a purchasing & inventory manager for a medium sized company, so basically I stare at spreadsheets and write email all day.
 
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