"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jobs/Careers and Women

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What kind of jobs do women prefer that men have? The obvious answer is "ones that make a lot of money."

I'm wondering because my life seems steered towards a blue collar career and I'm wondering that since white collar jobs seem more valued in society today, if that will negatively effect my future dating life.

Not that my dating/sex life isn't in the toilet now, but I'm working on changing that.

Out of curiosity, what is it that you, the frequent posters on this board, do for a living?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Effington

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You shouldn't have any problems dating just because you are going blue collar, there's nothing wrong at all with that. If a girl is less interested in you because of the number of zeroes on your paycheck, then she's doing you a favor by leaving you be.

Personally, I'm a purchasing & inventory manager for a medium sized company, so basically I stare at spreadsheets and write email all day.
 
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