"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jobs; 10-20/HR range...Any advice?

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I live in TN, and I've been looking for a little part-time job in the 10-20/hr field. I don't have a degree, but as far experience in pretty much anything, I have it. Medical, Sales, Fitness, Customer Service, Modeling, Computer, Programming, Web Design, Security... etc.

Any good ideas on where/how to get a job? It's been a month now...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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training jobs at gyms are big nowadays if your fit.

Other than that. UPS and FedEx are around the 10-11 range starting salary. Probably you're best bet off the top of my head. Labor jobs tend to be higher. Look for anything that requires lifting of things/labor.

I just recently helped my friend land a position at FedEx.
 
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AAAgent said:
training jobs at gyms are big nowadays if your fit.

Other than that. UPS and FedEx are around the 10-11 range starting salary. Probably you're best bet off the top of my head. Labor jobs tend to be higher. Look for anything that requires lifting of things/labor.

I just recently helped my friend land a position at FedEx.
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Thanks man! That was a seriously helpful post. I'll look into fedex/ups. I could train, but that requires a lot of setup as far as getting in with the gym and paying a fee to train there. Still, it's a possibility.
 
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Stud said:
Join the military
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Join hooked on phonics, the OP said *part-time* job
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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