"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jobs; 10-20/HR range...Any advice?

AF77

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I live in TN, and I've been looking for a little part-time job in the 10-20/hr field. I don't have a degree, but as far experience in pretty much anything, I have it. Medical, Sales, Fitness, Customer Service, Modeling, Computer, Programming, Web Design, Security... etc.

Any good ideas on where/how to get a job? It's been a month now...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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training jobs at gyms are big nowadays if your fit.

Other than that. UPS and FedEx are around the 10-11 range starting salary. Probably you're best bet off the top of my head. Labor jobs tend to be higher. Look for anything that requires lifting of things/labor.

I just recently helped my friend land a position at FedEx.
 

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AAAgent said:
training jobs at gyms are big nowadays if your fit.

Other than that. UPS and FedEx are around the 10-11 range starting salary. Probably you're best bet off the top of my head. Labor jobs tend to be higher. Look for anything that requires lifting of things/labor.

I just recently helped my friend land a position at FedEx.
Thanks man! That was a seriously helpful post. I'll look into fedex/ups. I could train, but that requires a lot of setup as far as getting in with the gym and paying a fee to train there. Still, it's a possibility.
 

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Stud said:
Join the military
Join hooked on phonics, the OP said *part-time* job
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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