"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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job opening, should i tell the dude?

ScrewIt

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Arrgh, confused.

normally i dont help someone unless i like them or they've helped me in the past.

last semester i had this classmate i was alright with. then far into the break (january) he emailed me asking if there were any openings at where i work. im a graphic designer here and he wants to get into the field, the dude told me in his email he was sick of his job at best buy. i asked my boss and he said there were no openings, so i told him. i also mentioned unpaid internships were available.

That was the last email i sent the guy. and that was the last i heard from him.

now today my boss says there's an opening and told me to check with the guy. Should i bother with him? or possibly try one of my female acquantances.

the thing with the guy was that the only reason he'd talk to me was if he needed something. and disapointingly people like this aggravate me.

should i not tell him at all? or tell one of my female acquantances (who also once inquired about job openings)?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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help him out. He owes you one, tell him that :p
 

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hmm alright. or did you guys mistype and meant to say " tell her."
;)
 
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