"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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job opening, should i tell the dude?

ScrewIt

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Arrgh, confused.

normally i dont help someone unless i like them or they've helped me in the past.

last semester i had this classmate i was alright with. then far into the break (january) he emailed me asking if there were any openings at where i work. im a graphic designer here and he wants to get into the field, the dude told me in his email he was sick of his job at best buy. i asked my boss and he said there were no openings, so i told him. i also mentioned unpaid internships were available.

That was the last email i sent the guy. and that was the last i heard from him.

now today my boss says there's an opening and told me to check with the guy. Should i bother with him? or possibly try one of my female acquantances.

the thing with the guy was that the only reason he'd talk to me was if he needed something. and disapointingly people like this aggravate me.

should i not tell him at all? or tell one of my female acquantances (who also once inquired about job openings)?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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help him out. He owes you one, tell him that :p
 

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hmm alright. or did you guys mistype and meant to say " tell her."
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