Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bible_Belt

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It's MLM. Their gimmick is that some profits go to charity. But it looks like Amway.

The one feature that distinguishes a legal scheme from an illegal Ponzi scheme is a legitimate product. A Ponzi scheme has no real product, and everyone makes their money off recruiting new members. Pyramid schemes eventually must die because there are not an infinite amount of people. Eventually, new recruits run out. I did not see any discussion of a product on that web site. Even if a legit product existed, you still have to sell it. People with sales skills are rare, and they get paid well selling non-MLM goods and services.

http://www.mlmsurvivor.com/
 

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My friend's dad quit his job as a senior VP at a fortune 500 company to sell cars. Not only did he double his salary the first year, but they gave him a brand new SUV as a bonus.

So yeah, if sales is your thing, you could be making a lot more money than with MLM.

Also, be warned that the top guys in any sales force work 70-80 hour weeks.
 

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If it's MLM, you have to be the guy at the top of the pyramid or else its not worth your time.

In deals like amway/quixtar, the part that they don't mention is that the guys on top got rich by selling tapes and motivational tools (and not products, as they would like you to believe) to the people beneath them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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