Being a student when I go home over the summer I'm going to need a job in order to, well, you know, have money. I found out that a local pub in my area is looking for summer staff. I was thinking this would be a great idea, as I'd get to meet loads of people, have many inane conversations and get more used to talking to people. What's everyone's opinion on this? Is there a better place to work over the summer that you can suggest?
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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
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Job in a Pub - Good idea?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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If that is the only place that has vacancy, take it. Do you want to meet people or work to earn money? If you want to meet people, don't get the job but rather go to your local malls. But if money making is your goal, work and make it.
In the UK we don't have 'malls' in the same sense that you have in America. So, I'd definitely recommend getting a job in a pub; it's a great way to meet people - especially hot chicks. Just make sure it pays well enough.amoka said: