Being a student when I go home over the summer I'm going to need a job in order to, well, you know, have money. I found out that a local pub in my area is looking for summer staff. I was thinking this would be a great idea, as I'd get to meet loads of people, have many inane conversations and get more used to talking to people. What's everyone's opinion on this? Is there a better place to work over the summer that you can suggest?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Job in a Pub - Good idea?
- Thread starter CJDragon
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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If that is the only place that has vacancy, take it. Do you want to meet people or work to earn money? If you want to meet people, don't get the job but rather go to your local malls. But if money making is your goal, work and make it.
In the UK we don't have 'malls' in the same sense that you have in America. So, I'd definitely recommend getting a job in a pub; it's a great way to meet people - especially hot chicks. Just make sure it pays well enough.amoka said: