"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Jim Wender: Weight loss/Strength

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Just so everyone knows – I weighed about 275-280 for about 4 years. Before I had been around 220-245 and in fairly good shape. So the weight gain was forced and part of a plan to increase my powerlifting total.

So it was some serious overeating and serious under moving. But it got to the
point where I no longer wanted to be that big – I was out of breath, my health was in the sh!tter and everything was awful.

I did drop to about 225 for awhile and am now back up to 240. I feel good at this weight and am much leaner now than I was years ago. So here is what I did:

Diet

1. Eat smaller portions – I began by eating the same crap I was before only less of it.

2. Remove one bad thing from your diet at a time.

After that - just look at what a bodybuilder does for his diet and follow it as much as you can. I don’t care what anyone says – you know what to eat and what is clean. People just choose not to do it. I pretty much eat the same stuff everyday:

• Eggs
• Chicken
• Brown Rice
• Wheat Bread
• Cottage Cheese
• Fruit
• Oatmeal

I only eat food until I’m satisfied. So I rarely finish a normal meal at a restaurant. I limit all protein drinks (I’ve had 4 in 6 months) and prefer to eat whole food. I do not count calories or any macronutrient. That is gay. If you want to lose weight, eat less. If you want to gain, eat more.

Conditioning:

I started doing some sled dragging to take the pressure off my knees and
because this is all I could do without passing out. After I got in better shape, I started doing a variety of conditioning work:

1. Running
2. Stairs
3. Bodyweight Circuits
4. Walking with weight vest
5. Sled work (running/walking)
6. Riding bike

Then I got a Prowler and this has made up the bulk of my conditioning for the
past year or so. This thing kicks my ass and I now use it as a warm-up and after I train. I try to condition after every single training session and my “off” days are exactly that. Nothing extra.

Lifting:

This really didn’t change that much, I just could try to do different things because I wasn’t just concerned about my 3 lifts. Just train heavy and break records… I don’t train to train. That is a waste of time in my eyes.

Listen – if you lose weight you will get weaker..in the short run. Be patient and it will come back. There were some days that I was weaker than a 4 year old boy. Now I am able to do some of the things I did 40lbs ago…and some lifts are even better. The problem is that no one wants to realize that this stuff takes time and
it’s a long process. Lifting weights and getting stronger is not something for the 2007 American Citizen. We all want it NOW.

If someone wants to get stronger, better shape and in better condition, here
is the model to follow:


• Warm up with Parisi Warm up
• Perform one big movement (squat, dead, clean, bench, military) for one or
two hard sets.
• Perform 3-6 assistant movements with a bodybuilding rep scheme
• Condition with Prowler for 15-20 minutes

Do this 3 times a week and you’ll be fine – you won’t be the biggest, strongest or
best conditioned person in the world – but you’ll have a little bit from every world.
Written By; Jim Wendler
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jim wendler , producing fat, extremely weak "mediocre" lifters since 1882.
look he even confesses himself
Do this 3 times a week and you’ll be fine – you won’t be the biggest, strongest or
best conditioned person in the world – but you’ll have a little bit from every world.
so basically he is telling us that we SUCK, that we can never be anything but mediocre and we should accept our limit and become a mediocre fat ass.... i hereby apologize if i hurt anybody's teddybear feelings and made them realize that they CAN be something better than what this guy wants you to believe.

yeah , my doc told me ill be in a wheelchair all my life . . . ha ha.fvck him.
my teachers told me "you cant enter college " HA HA
i cant be bothered to list all the people i fvcked over simply because i didnt like them looking down on me...

as for veggies, they are poison.nuff said. only veggie i eat is fish.
 

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switch said:
yeah , my doc told me ill be in a wheelchair all my life . . . ha ha.fvck him.
my teachers told me "you cant enter college " HA HA
i cant be bothered to list all the people i fvcked over simply because i didnt like them looking down on me...

as for veggies, they are poison.nuff said. only veggie i eat is fish.
Same with me when I got sick, said that I may not walk again. Doctors need to give you the worst case scenario, so you don't get your hopes up.

When others tell you that you "can't" do things, it's because they don't want you to succeed nor improve.
 

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switch said:
jim wendler , producing fat, extremely weak "mediocre" lifters since 1882.
look he even confesses himself


so basically he is telling us that we SUCK, that we can never be anything but mediocre and we should accept our limit and become a mediocre fat ass.... i hereby apologize if i hurt anybody's teddybear feelings and made them realize that they CAN be something better than what this guy wants you to believe.

yeah , my doc told me ill be in a wheelchair all my life . . . ha ha.fvck him.
my teachers told me "you cant enter college " HA HA
i cant be bothered to list all the people i fvcked over simply because i didnt like them looking down on me...

as for veggies, they are poison.nuff said. only veggie i eat is fish.
Lmao sarcasm on the veggies comment I take it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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