"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jiinx Kino?

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I just thought of this
When a situation comes up when you can jiinx a girl (u know, when u say the same thing at the same time) .. do it and then use it as an opportunity for kino. If ur at a party maybe u can even smack her ass?
I wish i had thought of this a few days back :D

Anyways what do yall think.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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oh jeeze.

If you are looking for excuses for kino then you're in the wrong game.

*holds up a fist* *bruce lee immitation*

"It hits allllll by itself..."
 

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"Excuse" ?

is that not just a figure of speeach

what if i said "good reason to use kino?"

or would this be too noticeable to be counted as kino???
 

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Understand that KINO is a term used to categorize a plethora of happenings.

How this kino is used, is rather a fluid concept. In retrospect, one can assign something as kino if it involves touching.

If you are looking for opportunities to touch the girl, then I reccomend you go ahead and start MAKING excuses/reasons to do so.

Do not be a victim of your environment, surf on it as waves of existence.
 

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Originally posted by pulse

Do not be a victim of your environment, surf on it as waves of existence.

great post, pulse. Did you come up with this quote by yourself?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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so ur saying that in the sense that ppl from this board use kino ( subconciously.. ) that what i said is useless?
This "jiinx kino" wouldnt serve the purpose of what kino is for?
 

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I'm saying, roughly, that you shouldn't develop tactics for kino away from the environment you are trying to use them in.

Something like kino is all about the touch - and if you want to go deeper - sex.

So would you rather sleep with someone who had premeditated moves? Or someone who could act at a moments notice with uncanny precision?

Is this helping?
 

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well iwasnt thinking "hey lets make up some kino ideas"
this just came to me this morning out of no where.. kinda like comedy comes to me.

but im not understanding.. r u saying this is still kino ?( bc i thought kino was supposed to be unnoticed.. but gets u closer to having sex)...
or r u saying its not kino or wut
 

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You are trapping kino into unneccesary specifications.
Kino at it's root level is TOUCH.
Despite if its noticed or not.


With this understanding, maybe my previous replies could make more sense for you.

haha. "Could make more sense for you"
hahahaha.
 

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uh.. i still dont understand this "If you are looking for opportunities to touch the girl, then I reccomend you go ahead and start MAKING excuses/reasons to do so.

Do not be a victim of your environment, surf on it as waves of existence.
"

kino = touch ..... so.... r u saying this is a bad idea or wut?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Its not a bad idea, its just a waste of time.

Its good that you are realizing kino can be used anywhere.

Part of what I was saying, was a reccomendation that you should get used to MAKING "opportunities" to use it.
 

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making opportunities yes, but do not pre-meditate these opportunities.


Notice them when they are there, and act when they are there.

If you need to inject more kino, just touch her more,. its easyyyyyy
 

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Kino is used to accomodate a situation, a situation isn't used to accomodate kino.
 

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Originally posted by Kraken
Kino is used to accomodate a situation, a situation isn't used to accomodate kino.
More folk listen to kraken, he knows what he's talkin about!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Okay, Lost, I like to touch girls. If you are anything like me, you like to touch girls. You know what I say? Touch girls!

Kino is best left imperceptible to the other party the first few times, to get her subconciously warmed up to you. Despite this, there is nothing to say that the first touch simply has to be imperceptible.

If she is human, she likes to be touched in a non-threatening manner. Therefore, she will like it if you touch her in a non-threatening manner.

The DJ terminology 'kino' is derived from the word 'kinaesthetics', which almost literally means anything that stimulates the sense of touch or perception with the skin, be it physical touch or temperature changes.

If you are bored by that, just think this...

TOUCH GIRLS! You like it, they like it. What's to lose?

---Cassidy
 
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