Jesus Christ! I can't take this sh!t anymore ahhh!

[moneyisking]

Sh!t, I am breaking down again.

I thought I finally realized the roots of my problem, and yet this morning I met a girl and find myself still nervous and weak in the mind.

Only came back to my room and thought what the fvck is the only difference b/t me and those guys who get girls so easily.

I thought not thinking about women was going to make me confident and comfortable but nothing has changed. I am nervous and uncomfortable self as I have always been. I can't lie to myself and my nature. No matter how much I try to deny myself from it, I want women, I want to fvck women, I want to get good with women. But reality is just not parallel.

Really, what the fvck is my problem? Is there a lot of difference b/t me and stud in what I say? Is it his mentality? Why is he so calm and pull any chicks while I can't even get a regular girl? What the fvck is wrong with me?

I thought women and sex were unimportant but it's not something that can overcome that easy. You think women and sex are unimportant once you start getting women and sex. What is it inside me that is wrong? I just don't get it.

Those that get girls, what, how, how how how how how how!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

No matter how much I talk to girls and interact with them, I do not improve, I do not get better. WHAT THE FVCK!!!!!! Should I just be mad at world and just don't give a fvck? Give up? I seriously thought of stabbing myself. WHAT SHOULD I DO???? I don't get this!

 

[1337]

"No matter how much I talk to girls and interact with them, I do not improve, I do not get better. WHAT THE FVCK!!!!!! Should I just be mad at world and just don't give a fvck? Give up? I seriously thought of stabbing myself. WHAT SHOULD I DO???? I don't get this!"

There's your answer don't give a damn but don't be mad at the world. You're talking to girls with hidden intentions of sex and getting them. Your suppose to talk to them for self amusement. You've also got to accept how life is what your negative qualities don't deny them, just observe and accept that it is. Accepting the reality live gives you makes you run parallel with it. It's your intentions that giving you away. If you had no intention of banging a chick and you spoke to her I guarentee you would do better. Even if she was mean to you it wouldn't matter to you cuz you had no intention with her. For now be the observer of your own reaction towards women and you will notice a lot of things.

 

[1337]

"No matter how much I talk to girls and interact with them, I do not improve, I do not get better. WHAT THE FVCK!!!!!! Should I just be mad at world and just don't give a fvck? Give up? I seriously thought of stabbing myself. WHAT SHOULD I DO???? I don't get this!"

There's your answer don't give a damn but don't be mad at the world. You're talking to girls with hidden intentions of sex and getting them. Your suppose to talk to them for self amusement. You've also got to accept how life is what your negative qualities don't deny them, just observe and accept that it is. Accepting the reality live gives you makes you run parallel with it. It's your intentions that giving you away. If you had no intention of banging a chick and you spoke to her I guarentee you would do better. Even if she was mean to you it wouldn't matter to you cuz you had no intention with her. For now be the observer of your own reaction towards women and you will notice a lot of things.

 

[The Decay of Meaning]

Stop being frustrated

And girls are humans as well. They fart, sh it, eat, sleep, go to work. They are insecure about their looks (even the hottest girls).

Take care of your looks, have fun. Get a cool haircut, lift some weights or lose some bodyfat, take care of your skin, get a good perfume, try to find a job you really enjoy, develop your hobbies. You'll feel better about yourself. And the process of transformation is fun.

Get your life on track.

I also bring myself up a 100 notches when I get something to drink, but others have the opposite experience.

 

[CaptainJ]

Start weightlifting.

When you can squat and deadlift 1.5x your bodyweight, you're not gonna give a fvck what any girl thinks of you anymore

 

[moneyisking]

I work out regularly, have a job, going to college, have sh!t load of friends, not very hard to find parties, talk to girls, and still, I am just nervous, sh!tting pants dumbazz. Dam..

 

[RedZone]

grow the **** up and stop ******** about this. Your a man act like one.

 

[The Decay of Meaning]

Have you got any idea why are you afraid?

This was the case for myself: Trying to impress, show a good image of yourself, trying to achieve something.

When you stop doing that, when you only try to put focus on yourself and your own well being, and be nice or cool just because you are and not because you want someone to like you, your actions are no longer mirrored by the actions or thoughts of others.

And then you are free, because you are no longer dependent on the reaction of others.

Don't talk to people because you want them to like you. Don't smile to girls or people in general because you want to achieve something ("I hope he/she will like me because I try to look happy"). Smile because you are kind, because you are happy, whatever.

This might not be the thing that makes you nervous, but it was the case for myself.

 

[Blank]

Start weightlifting.

When you can squat and deadlift 1.5x your bodyweight, you're not gonna give a fvck what any girl thinks of you anymore

Hahaha I can squat and DL almost 2x my bodyweight, I don't think that makes a difference. Sleeping with lots of different girls however, does make you think way less of what other girls think

 

[zekko]

I thought I finally realized the roots of my problem, and yet this morning I met a girl and find myself still nervous and weak in the mind.

Only came back to my room and thought what the fvck is the only difference b/t me and those guys who get girls so easily.

Keep working on your inner game, you'll get there.
Remember that these guys you see who do well with girls, you're probably seeing them at their best. They probably have their bad days too. It's hard to be 100% casual and confident ALL the time. Almost everybody gets to feeling down once in awhile. The key is you want to keep your head in the right place so you can be confident the vast majority of the time. And if you keep working at it, you'll get there.

Slow down and try to have fun with women. You don't have to bang one right this minute. Get out of your head. Relax and have fun. Like 1337 says, do it for your own amusement.

 

[moneyisking]

Keep working on your inner game, you'll get there.
Remember that these guys you see who do well with girls, you're probably seeing them at their best. They probably have their bad days too. It's hard to be 100% casual and confident ALL the time. Almost everybody gets to feeling down once in awhile. The key is you want to keep your head in the right place so you can be confident the vast majority of the time. And if you keep working at it, you'll get there.

Slow down and try to have fun with women. You don't have to bang one right this minute. Get out of your head. Relax and have fun. Like 1337 says, do it for your own amusement.

word. Thanks