Master Don Juan
- Mar 24, 2022
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No you raise a good point. At the start of this field report, it was tough for me to really even cold approach without the use of alcohol. Then I got some "wings" but they were crazy and ineffective for the most part. What has been my biggest setback is the consistency and getting back at it. Like I feel that overtime when I have had success with cold approach, it has been habitual. I have done it consistently for a few days and got into the routine which has weeded out a lot of bad game.Having read a lot of your journal and commend you for putting your balls on the line , I can't help but get the feeling a lot of these sets are seeing you as a dancing monkey its critical from the word go a woman sees you as a sexual option and not just some random dude blindly trying his luck
I think the opener is everything and if there's a group of say 3-4 girls its important to try and include all of them or you will get b1tch blocked which from reading a few interactions it seems has happened a few times
I haven't been out drinking in a while but a new opener I am going to test soon is
" excuse me ladies which one of you is the craziest "
They will probably all point at one girl if its a toss between 2 then thats even better as you can immediately tell them to make their minds up which will allow you to assert your dominance
Once they have selected the craziest you can just say " ok you're coming home with me tonight then" with a smirk but be serious
I can't really see this getting anything other than laughs and few " oHhhh's" and if it does they just don't have a sense of humour
I particularly like this because it does a couple of things
1) it shows your not here to mess around you have sex on your mind
2) you are making it very clear you see at least one of these women as a sexual option if not all of them
3) it will completely smash the ice with the group and from there you can begin to control the set in the way you want too
4) you can start moving onto really freaky bedroom sh1t once they have nominated the "crazy one"
I think this is a fairly bulletproof opener for night game and I am actually excited to run it let me know if you use it
The other reason this is tough to do? MIAMI HAS BEEN DEAD in recent months, especially the summer. Venues have been empty with barely any sets in them and even the streets have usually been lacking sets. This is so huge for regular practice.
Then when I come right back, the bad game, approach anxiety, and the rust return.
Going solo was a huge transition for me though and I am still getting used to it. At least wings somewhat served as barriers but most guys in the PUA community are freaking weird bro so they ruined more sets than they won.
I do have a few lines I want to try out and will use your line for large groups.
However, one line I want to use is just one to get them to admit if they are tourists or new arrivals. Gaming local Miami women and women who have settled into Miami itself is a losing battle. Most of them are not even that open to ONS and are quite prudish. I have a strategy that will finally get me the success I need once Miami starts to fill back up come October.