"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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whay2shie

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Anyone on the jersey shore looking for a wing... I'm decent looking so won't scare anyone away and drive a sweet ride. Preferrably someone over 21 so we can hit the drinking areas.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Glassjaw

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Looking for wingman

I'm looking for a wingman for down the shore near Seaside and Point Pleasant. I've got a house there right by the beach. Send me a message or post a reply and I'll send you me email.
 

Layla

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Deal, New Jersey here- house on the beach
 

Drum&Bass

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I'm gonna be at seaside the weekend of Aug 27, and down to chill with anyone.
 
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