frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
Do you think these dudes would pull women that easy in clubs and anywhere if they weren't on this show and were nobodies?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Jersey Shore males
- Thread starter frivolousz21
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You know what? They are and it works. So there. Eat it. Status is king, and being on the number one show on MTV is status. Do you think any ____ would pull chicks if they were nobodies? Substitute the blank for rock star, movie star, tv star, internet youtube star, millionaire, billionaire, sports figure, college professor who sleeps with students, Guy with a jacked body, guy with lots of game etc etc. men who accomplish things and have high status get laid. Men who don't whine about it and say, that could have been me, or I would get laid like that if.... It's sour grapes to even post this and unmanly. you know the rules, now play the game, raise your game and your status and hustle hard. Or go home. Good luck man.frivolousz21 said:
Scars
Master Don Juan
Warrior has a point, status wins.
But to answer the question more directly, I would say yes.
Even during the introductions in Season one and just from watching the first few episodes it was apparently obvious that most of them had the right mindset. Pauly and Mike especially. Vinny not so much, and definitely not Ron (Probably the most AFC of them all.) Those were/are the ones that probably still rely on "being on tv", but you can tell Mike (as much of a douchebag he is) has the right mindset and can handle situations (no pun intended) accordingly. He has proven this through season 1 and season 2.
All of the males are starting to learn now though. Ron was the biggest AFC of them all and he made a complete turn around this season. Vinny is now probably the weakest male in the house, but I'm sure he will catch on eventually.
These guys have status + game, which is a dangerous force. Status is great, but if you actually have game to follow through behind it you become unstoppable.
I think they get more play behind the scenes then when the cameras are actually rolling. Any girl ever seen on that show especially if she slept with one of the members would have her name synonymous with "wh0re". Any girl with have a brain known she can't salvage her reputation after something like that.
But yes, I think they were getting play even before the show. Granted, they are probably getting a lot more now of it now though.
-Scars
But to answer the question more directly, I would say yes.
Even during the introductions in Season one and just from watching the first few episodes it was apparently obvious that most of them had the right mindset. Pauly and Mike especially. Vinny not so much, and definitely not Ron (Probably the most AFC of them all.) Those were/are the ones that probably still rely on "being on tv", but you can tell Mike (as much of a douchebag he is) has the right mindset and can handle situations (no pun intended) accordingly. He has proven this through season 1 and season 2.
All of the males are starting to learn now though. Ron was the biggest AFC of them all and he made a complete turn around this season. Vinny is now probably the weakest male in the house, but I'm sure he will catch on eventually.
These guys have status + game, which is a dangerous force. Status is great, but if you actually have game to follow through behind it you become unstoppable.
I think they get more play behind the scenes then when the cameras are actually rolling. Any girl ever seen on that show especially if she slept with one of the members would have her name synonymous with "wh0re". Any girl with have a brain known she can't salvage her reputation after something like that.
But yes, I think they were getting play even before the show. Granted, they are probably getting a lot more now of it now though.
-Scars
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I am certain that Mike and Pauly D. were having no problems picking up hot chicks before being on Jersey Shore. Like Scars said, I could really tell they both were DJ's from the first show. I really think Ronnie and Vinny are benefiting from hanging with them.
SharinganUser
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 1, 2006
- Messages
- 1,776
- Reaction score
- 50
To me it only goes to show just how effective having status and game is. If you have those, it doesn't matter if you are an orangy skinned, greasy haired, beater wearing D-bag guido.
If it isn't obvious by now I don't think that these guys make very good role models. There are other types of guys that are way more classier than these guys and could pull just as much ass as they do.
If it isn't obvious by now I don't think that these guys make very good role models. There are other types of guys that are way more classier than these guys and could pull just as much ass as they do.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.