"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jerking Off Hand Gesture?

meldiamond

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So, yeah, I don't really know what this means. I guess most of the peeps I hang out with are too nice to do this type of thing. :)

But yeah I was out thursday night and ran into a girl who has a huge crush on me. She is average looking, I'm not into her. She games me hard every time she sees me though.

I see a girl I'm an acquaintance with. She is hot, a half asian girl. Her male companion heads to the bathroom or leaves her for some reason. The girl looks kinda lost and starts to chat me up in a really enthusiastic giggly, flirtatious way.

The other girl with a crush on me stares at us. She rolls her eyes, looks at the girl, looks back at me then gives a 'jerking off' gesture. She hung out for a while watching us, then left after a minute or so. I guess she was waiting to talk to me.

Anyway, the guy comes back after a bit and the hot girl leaves. So, basically, I lost both girls.

The only other time I've seen the 'jerk off' gesture is at sports events on random occasions to taunt an opposing player. I suppose it means the same in this context? The girl watching hates the girl talking to me?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Atom Smasher

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Just goes to show how foul-minded so many women of today are.

Imagine a man doing a jerking off motion in the presence of a woman, or a pu$$y rubbing gesture.

98 %of women today truly disgust me.
 

zekko

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The girl watching hates the girl talking to me?
More or less. I take it to mean she didn't think much of the girl talking to you. Sounds like maybe because she was talking to you.
 
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