"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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JERK vs DJ

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Hello,

there been many articles about jerks vs. nice guys, but what do you think about jers vs DJ´s?

Sure, a jerk won´t win in long term, but this isn´t the question.

I mean the success in the first step.


Younes
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It depends on the "Jerk" and the DJ. A DJ has alot of knowledge about women and a Jerk can as well. However, you can say that a Jerk teases women and women like them back naturally. A DJ can do the same but they use variety of tactics.

It's like saying..

"Jerk"- Non-trained combat fighters
DJ- Trained combat troops
 
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I think the concept here is that woman tend to fall for jerks and nice guys finish last... some crap like this right?

Well a jerk is a jerk.

A DJ is what a nice guy thinks is a jerk.

A DJ to himself is happy with who he is and nothing more.
 
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Originally posted by flexion_
I think the concept here is that woman tend to fall for jerks and nice guys finish last... some crap like this right?

Well a jerk is a jerk.

A DJ is what a nice guy thinks is a jerk.

A DJ to himself is happy with who he is and nothing more.
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Hmmm, actually Jerks and Nice Guys are one in the same except on different extreemes...

A DJ is sort of a balance between a jerk in a nice guy, or atleast a potential jerk with a tad bit more self-control.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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