"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jerk Question

B-Real

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I was at a party last night. The ratio of guys to girls was like 3:1. So needless to say the same girls got hit on a LOT. So I got to thinking about the things that I have learned on this site.

Their was one girl in particular that was getting most of the attention. She was about a HB8 and very busty. So i knew I had to come up with something unique. So the first things I said to her after I watched at least 5 guys hit on her and practically smother her in a room was when she walked out and I said

me: "So how did they do"
she: "How did they do what?"
me:"I mean which one is going home with you tonite?"

Then she just kinda smiled and walked off. Was this good?

Ok the second and last time I seen her I had notiiced that her toenail polish was wearing off. And on one toe there was red paint and on the opposite foot there wasn't any. So i figured I would try to be a jerk and said (as I walk by her) "You thats not really attractive having one red toe" and I walked off.

Later on I was talking to a buddy of mine about her and he said that she said that she didn't like me. But then he said she said she was just kidding.

So was this a good experience. I mean I also got a phone # from another chick before I met the HB8. Does being an a$$ and getting to the point that they say that they don't like you a good thing?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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How many times has being an ass worked for you? How many times hasn't it?
 

Bvbidd

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lol chicks like when your a jerk to everybody BUT her.

What? You think by insulting her and walking off it would get you somewhere? lol
 

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Well its hard for me to be an ass because I never used to be that way. I'm trying now but I'm still leaning towards the nice guy. Apparently it worked for last nite..
 

B-Real

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No I think girls like when your a jerk to her and not everybody else because every guy at that party that was talking to her had the same NICE thing to say to her, all compliments and stroking. She needed someone to bring her off that pedestal.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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