Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Jelousy + Insecurity = Man's tool

CherryBreaker

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Jealousy and Insecurity....
Use it against her and she'll be eating from the palm of your hand.

Use it wisely and sparingly though, just when all else fails.

If necesitates, pay a girl to pretend to be your new girlfriend or pay her to pretend that she's trying to pick you up in front of your gal.

Ever notice how women are all around you when you have a gal but when you're alone, single, horny, they're not there?

These emotion makes us AFCs but make girls turn into a love slave.

Works all the time.

I'm using it currently and it works like a charm.

-- Advice from the real playr - Cassinova
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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Yeah this is a pretty decent tip!

The reason it works is it makes the girl constantly think about you. And when those thoughts are centered around you being with other girls it makes you seem more desireable.

I dont think you have to go to such extremes as paying someone to pretend they're dating you, cause if the jig is up and you're exposed you will be looked at as a major LOSER. That kind of thing is also the kind of thing that girl will tell ALL Her friends and all her friends will repeat.

That can really blow up in your face!

It should be enough for her to see you flirting with other girls or perhaps you mentioning a good time you had with a female friend of yours. Don't go to the extremes of putting up a major act or really emphasizing it either. It should be subtle and natural, not a major performance or she'll catch on that you're trying so hard to show her you have other girls she will get suspicious and not in the good way.
 

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edited...why not, i'll bump this for stupidity :rolleyes:
 

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Yes yes we all know having beautiful women around you builds social proof, creating the illusion that you are indeed a hot commody/rarity. I have recently had much success with this, but I have a problem. I have trouble choosing which lady to go after, if they are all hot and all cool, it makes for a difficult decision. Then once you choose one what is the best way to not be an assho1e to the rest, and leave the doors open for furure hook ups or relationships. Its wierd I feel like I have to please everyone all the time. I dunno, any thoughts will be appreciated.
 

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Originally posted by CherryBreaker



If necesitates, pay a girl to pretend to be your new girlfriend or pay her to pretend that she's trying to pick you up in front of your gal.
This is the stupidest thing I've read on this site.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I dated a woman who was jealous and insecure once (only once). I learned my lesson and will never do that again. Too much drama, too many false accusations made by her, too much effort to help her feel secure. Waste of time and effort. It may be worthwhile for a guy in high school but it's a pain in the @ss for a grown man.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I dated a woman who was jealous and insecure once (only once). I learned my lesson and will never do that again. Too much drama, too many false accusations made by her, too much effort to help her feel secure. Waste of time and effort. It may be worthwhile for a guy in high school but it's a pain in the @ss for a grown man.
I could NOT agree more.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
I dated a woman who was jealous and insecure once (only once). I learned my lesson and will never do that again. Too much drama, too many false accusations made by her, too much effort to help her feel secure. Waste of time and effort. It may be worthwhile for a guy in high school but it's a pain in the @ss for a grown man.
Totally off-topic, but I can bet she was a virgo... :D
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by xanderbaz
Totally off-topic, but I can bet she was a virgo... :D
I see where you're going. Good guess, I can't remember though. I have learned however, that it can be an underlying trait in Aries women too.... BEWARE!!!!! :p
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by CherryBreaker
Jealousy and Insecurity....
Use it against her and she'll be eating from the palm of your hand.

Use it wisely and sparingly though, just when all else fails.

If necesitates, pay a girl to pretend to be your new girlfriend or pay her to pretend that she's trying to pick you up in front of your gal.

Ever notice how women are all around you when you have a gal but when you're alone, single, horny, they're not there?

These emotion makes us AFCs but make girls turn into a love slave.

Works all the time.

I'm using it currently and it works like a charm.

-- Advice from the real playr - Cassinova
The problem is as you said you are using it currently ...on one girl.

Don't pay a girl to pretend you have a girlfriend - just go pick up 3 more.

The best way to actually show that you are too busy is to be too busy. How? Hell, have 4 girls on your plate. Thats how. You will have to juggle every girl and believe me it gets hard (when they all want you) but its the best way. Shows you have other commitments, other girls that want to see you, etc etc etc.
 
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