"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jed's Workout Routine

Humble Young Man

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Hi Guys I'm 16 and I have decided to start lifting weights. I've been starting to lift weigths for 2 months now and I've gone from 104lb to 105lb... I try to do my best in every workout but I only see muscle development, but no weight gain (I'm an extreme hardgainer)

I do the same routine every workout

I workout 3 days a week: monday, wednesday, friday

This is my routine:

Dumbbell Chest Press:
25lb on each hand: 3 sets of 15-20 reps

Dumbbell Chest Fly:
10lb on each hand: 3 sets of 15-20 reps

Push-ups:
3 sets Until Failure

Forearm Destroyer:
20-25lb on each hand: 3 sets of 10-15 reps
I notice that whenever I curl the weight it doesnt go straight up and down because it's too heavy? Should I use lighter weights so the curling motion is straight?

Lateral Raise with Dumbbell:
10lb on each hand: 3 sets of 10 reps

Dumbbell Bicep Curl:
10lb on each hand: 3 sets of 10 reps

Ray Tricep Pressdown Using Cable Machine:
3 sets Until Failure




So what do you think guys? Too much sets? I don't have a barbell in my gym or bars so I can't do any bench press, dead lifts, or pull-ups. I am only limited to dumbbells and a machine. Is my workout efficient?

I want to gain more weight, is eating a lot of pizza a good way to consume massive calories and gain weight?

And I am scared to do ANY cardio because I have fast metabolism and afraid that I will lose calories.


Massive advice needed!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Humble Young Man

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I am a beginner, I had to search through google to learn the very basics...

This is not a joke, and if you are going to say something say something that helps me...
 

Quagmire911

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You're statement "I am an extreme hardgainer", is very flawed. You aren't nearly doing things correctly, so get the idea of your being a hardgainer out of your head.

If you want to put on some serious weight/strength and do it properly, you will have to find a better gym.

Once you have, follow this:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=125444
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134782

Make a log on here, and use ironaddicts.com for more weight lifting info.

Pizza is a good way to get big, big and fat. You want to be throwing down a lot of beef and eggs. Follow the diet above.

If you can't find a decent gym your best bet is to get into shape as best you can and work with what you have, until you can get to a decent gym. Understand that your results won't be nearly as good.

How heavy do the dumbbells go? What machines do you have? How much weight can you put on them?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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