"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how to get rid of this fvking jealousy? i get real angry.
i broke up with my girl in a nice way 4 days ago. now we're good friends. she says "ooh i would be so glad if u come to chicago and study" bla bla bla.. "i would give up all those black guys for you" bla bla bla..
she likes black guys.. and i was like.. oh.. so have u seen any nice black guy yet? and she was like heh every second black guy looks good.
and i was like "ooh haha.. i thought u would go solo as long as you can't be with me" and she was like "yeah but you can still play around"
fvcking hoe i thought to myself.. first she says she is a christian bla bla bla then she acting all hoeish all of a sudden.. (i took her virginity yeah).. what should i do? how should i think? etc etc? im just angry
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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why bro? im still in love with her and she's still in love with me
 
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dude her pus$y is so wide by now that you can stick your fuking head up it, if you wanted to, shes a typical **** loving hoe, if you love her then theres no way to get ride of jelousy, but forget her A$$ would be the best bet.
 
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make her get back with you. Let all that bull**** she's saying roll off your back, even if it isn't bull**** just think: You ****ed her first, you made her a **** fiend, because your so good.

Now she is searching for you, in another person do you know what I mean? She can't have you so she's looking for you, just in someone else. Make her want to get back together with you then get back with her.
 
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doesn't sound like love? u mean if you are experiencing real love you can't get jealous? why?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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First of all Chill the fawk out. Get over her. She isn't that important in your life anymore.

She is telling you about those "black guys" to get a rise out of you.

You in your own insecurity against us brutha's are begging for it by asking her questions that you know are going to make ya upset.

It's like this twisted convoluted game you two are playing. I say let it go and break all contact with the bytch.

You broke up with her for a reason and there , in my opinion is no reason to hang out anymore.

Find some other ho's to fawk with and forget this black guy shaggin tramp.
 
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Rapsta Rapsta Rapsta, she is in another country to study for years. She may love u but she is young and wants to experience life. U need to let this one go, if she loves you enough in a few years time you two can have another shot. But for now, break all contact and live your life!

Dont waste the best years of your life for something that may only turn out to be a pipe-dream!
 
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Repeat it to yourself.

stop being so jealous, stop being possessive!!

Do this exercise one hour for one month..daily.
 
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Hey...This girl is swedish right? And she like black dudes? Pass her over here, let me get in there...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by dementia
i really hate how some b.tches do this. I had this one girl who i may have showed to much interest in and she totally read it and started with the b.tchy statemetns and stories. ONE AFTER THE OTHER even.

1) "I went to a party the other day, i met heaps of guys i went to school with and theyve all gone SO hot. One gave me his number i think ill call him next week."

My response: *in gay voice* "See if hes got any friends! We can double date!"... haha SQUASHED.

2) Im going clubbing with the girls tonight. Im gonna find some sexy guy to take home and ram me hard.

WTF!! I had no C+F response to that, damn!

These were both in the car on the way back from the video store. Needless to say half way thru the movie i was banging her like a 10 cent, toothless crack*****. But still, at the time with her stories the change of me hitting it felt REALLY LOW... maybe i jsut responded well.
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so she was saying all that to make you jealous?
 
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rapsta...is this the same girl in another thread that said she wanted to go to a nightclub with her girls to dance with other guys?!

she's been testing you all along. Bro..get over your oneitis.

She's not worth the time. Black dude this..black dude that? She's just trying to get a rise out of you..and obviously its working. Before you get into a LTR, you need to get over your own demons and insecurities. Why does the fact she like black guys threaten you? Would it be different if she said, I like Puerto Rican guys (no offense PRL :D ), white guys, asian guys give you the same sense of jealously?

If it bugs you, drop her. Why do you need a woman that makes you feel insecure. Yeah yeah..i'm sure there will be DJs on here that say that they have no insecurities...I say thats BS...to a point, I think we all have some self doubt about something in our lives...but...being with a woman who tests your buttons isnt healthy.

Drop her and find a woman that doesnt hold you down.
 
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