"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jealousy

Wounded_Warrior

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Thoughts on jealousy? Is it a good indicator for IL or is it the whole i want what i cant have scenario.

Quick replay of events. My ex and i have been texting she tells me that shes jealous thinks im talking to other girls. I try to flirt with a "youre too cute you know that :)" being a little sarcastic as well. I get back "its not cute. im just jealous but only with you. ha"

So i stop flirting because it seems more awkward like she has feelings possibly but feels weird talking about it. So i tryed to change the subject and make things fun and light. She goes cold.

Thoughts? :confused:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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El Payaso

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Thoughts??

Stop talking to your ex.
 

Wounded_Warrior

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El Payaso said:
Thoughts??

Stop talking to your ex.
Id appreciate you not commenting on my threads if youre not going to give me anything productive. You answered none of my actual questions. I asked for thoughts on jealousy and IL. Its not that easy as "Stop talking to your ex." I wish it was that easy but theres alot more to the dynamics.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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