"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jealousy

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Thoughts on jealousy? Is it a good indicator for IL or is it the whole i want what i cant have scenario.

Quick replay of events. My ex and i have been texting she tells me that shes jealous thinks im talking to other girls. I try to flirt with a "youre too cute you know that :)" being a little sarcastic as well. I get back "its not cute. im just jealous but only with you. ha"

So i stop flirting because it seems more awkward like she has feelings possibly but feels weird talking about it. So i tryed to change the subject and make things fun and light. She goes cold.

Thoughts? :confused:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thoughts??

Stop talking to your ex.
 
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El Payaso said:
Thoughts??

Stop talking to your ex.
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Id appreciate you not commenting on my threads if youre not going to give me anything productive. You answered none of my actual questions. I asked for thoughts on jealousy and IL. Its not that easy as "Stop talking to your ex." I wish it was that easy but theres alot more to the dynamics.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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