DJ4Life I think you hit the nail on the head. There's nothing to gain by taking things so seriously in a 3-month relationship. At 6-months maybe - I feel striking hard would be appropriate only if you've established exclusivity.
I too think a lot of the tips on here are extreme. I think some of the advice people give would have worked for me when I was in my early 20's as the girls seemed to be a lot more flaky. Im 31 now and most of the girls Ive dated over 25 seem to be fairly predictable.
Not to say the extreme tips aren't valuable -- -I just take them with a grain of salt and try to apply something from it to my situation. Anyway, everyone's advice is appreciated.
I too think a lot of the tips on here are extreme. I think some of the advice people give would have worked for me when I was in my early 20's as the girls seemed to be a lot more flaky. Im 31 now and most of the girls Ive dated over 25 seem to be fairly predictable.
Not to say the extreme tips aren't valuable -- -I just take them with a grain of salt and try to apply something from it to my situation. Anyway, everyone's advice is appreciated.