"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Jealousy

crossboss

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 3, 2005
Messages
717
Reaction score
2
There is this girl who I play ultimate frisbee with once a week. She seems to constanly touch all of the good players. A lot. All but me.

I can't help but feel jealousy. I'd rather not though. What should I do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Serialized3

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 17, 2003
Messages
1,148
Reaction score
18
Location
CO
I'd suggest getting over it. A little time and perspective is all you need.
 

xxSLavExx

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2006
Messages
31
Reaction score
0
Location
Japan
don't worry about her. there's nothing wrong with you..you've got more inportant things to worry about, just keep playing frisbee....
 

Serialized3

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 17, 2003
Messages
1,148
Reaction score
18
Location
CO
Yeah like that game from Braveheart where they see who can throw a heavier rock :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

crossboss

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 3, 2005
Messages
717
Reaction score
2
Ha Ha.

IrReSiStIbLe said:
Why the fvck are you playing frisbee...? Play a man's game...
Your just saying that because you don't know how to play. Plus it makes sense. Think about it. Easier to meet the females.
 

Nighthawk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 22, 2005
Messages
2,078
Reaction score
29
Street frisbee rules. If you hit anyone say 'don't get out of your pram mate, its just a bit of plastic'.

Jealousy is a monster that, like trolls, should never be fed.
 
Top