"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

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She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

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So i've been seeing this one girl, i've been using c/f, being nice on my own terms, giving her the gift of missing me, etc. I've read the literature, i'm pretty familiar with most of David DeAngelo's stuff.

Anyway, while i was giving her the gift of missing me, she starts flirting with some guy (i found this out from facebook). This doesn't bother me, but the other day, after waking up from a night of partying, i woke up and talked to her, and she tells me she's gonna go shopping. I was like cool, where? She was like Water Tower. Then i was like cool, i'll tag along, cause i haven't seen her in a while and i was being spontaneous. She then goes, you can't come cause she's with a "friend" and they've been plannin on it for a while. So i was like, whatever, have fun. She then asks, are you mad at me? I was like, no, if you had plans, you had plans.

So here's the kicker, the dude she was flirtin with, works at one of those stores at the Water Tower. Another thing is that she wasn't discreet about her conversation with this dude on facebook. Also, her friends were hinting about hangin out with that guy. So i mean, it's obviously an attempt to make me jealous right? I mean, i've gotten her to give up her sexual secrets, she calls me in the middle of the night and out of nowhere, and she even came to see me play baseball once. So i haven't done anything wrong right?

So all this happened 2 days ago. What i've been doin is not talking to her and focusing on this other chick that i've been seeing. I'm doing the right thing, right? But she(water tower girl) hasn't contacted me at all. So don't sweat it right? Take it easy, and let her come to me right? I like this girl more than the other one i've been seeing, but i think it's because of the "secrets" she told me.

So yeah, input please.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sounds like a test to me because she aint being very descrete about it. Generally speaking you are right about what to do, but I've noticed that girls want you to get jelous about them to an extent. If your not then they start to go off you because it's showing no interest. (Natural human behaviour to be jelous). So show some jelousy, just don't make a big deal about it.
 
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Buddy, you are no one special. Just cause a girl tells you some secrets and calls you late at night doesn't mean sh!t. Only by her actions will let you know if she likes you. It could be some lame a$$ test for you but don't fall for it. See other women while you can.
 
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Doesn't sound like a test at all to me. Sounds like a LJBF's situation. You say you've been seeing this girl which sounds to me like you guys were just hanging out. She told you all her deepest secrets because she doesn't see you as anything more than a friend. Basically you're not a threat. This other guy is probably someone she has a crush on. Her going to the mall with her friend was probably a way to get noticed by him.

Most times when girls have an interest in multiple guys they hide the guys from eachother. She put her business out for the whole world to see. I suggest you look for another girl, and stop hanging around them like you're the gay guy friend.
 
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kdnash82 said:
Doesn't sound like a test at all to me. Sounds like a LJBF's situation. You say you've been seeing this girl which sounds to me like you guys were just hanging out. She told you all her deepest secrets because she doesn't see you as anything more than a friend. Basically you're not a threat. This other guy is probably someone she has a crush on. Her going to the mall with her friend was probably a way to get noticed by him.

Most times when girls have an interest in multiple guys they hide the guys from eachother. She put her business out for the whole world to see. I suggest you look for another girl, and stop hanging around them like you're the gay guy friend.
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Actually, not deepest secrets, but her sexual secrets, like how she likes to masturbate, watch porn, etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SomethingClever said:
Actually, not deepest secrets, but her sexual secrets, like how she likes to masturbate, watch porn, etc.
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Step number 1: Get a porno
Step number 2: Invite the girl to your house
Step number 3: Put in the porn and finger her while she is watching it.
Step number 4: Tell her to break you off and get ready for some good sex!
 
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Uhhh, you're missing a big hint buddy.

Listen to her, and ask yourself what does she want?

If she's telling you these things, she wants you to explore her.

By the way, you overthink way too much. Don't be a tool with all these tests, deangelo material, hot/cold, etc.

Just do what you want, when you want. If she doesn't tag along, f*ck her and send her to the curb.

You're using Hot/Cold, Deangelo sh*t because YOU ARE AFRAID SHE WON'T LIKE YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE. Get with it bro, wisen up and be a man. You want something? go get it.
 
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There's always the chance that she's just in to that other guy.

Don't wait around for her.
 
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Follow what BluEyes says. I told you what to do in the event that it is a test, but BluEyes hit it head on and his advice on the whole is a lot better than mine. It might not get you that particular girl but it'd make you happier about life and yourself, thus in the long run get your more girls.
 
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