Jealousy question

[getready]

So iv'e been with my girl for about 2 months and we just started having sex (wouldve been sooner if not for damn condoms and periods). Shes good friends with this kid Matt whose a post grad so he's 18, and she and I are 16.
I stole her phone from her like i always do just joking around and saw that she had sent like 10 texts at least to this friend. They even have pet names for each other (she calls him spencer and he calls her juliet or something). Now when i saw this i asked who spencer was, she replied it was Matt. I acted like it didn't bother me and changed the subject.
This kid definitely wants to **** my girl. They even went to semi together before me and her were together. She says she never hooked up with him and never wanted too but im a little concerned. This kids gets a fair amount of girls too. Im not intimidated by him, but i sorta see him as a threat.
So my question is should i confront her about it? Or just blow it off like i have been doing. If he was one of my friends i wouldnt care but hes not. I just don't think she should be texting him more than she texts me.

 

[thewickedm]

Well.. I wouldn't be surprised if some months down the road she tells you she has feelings for this guy. Coming from experience of course, since I was told the same thing, twice at that too. What was I thinking man?

If a girl's IL is high, you will be the one on her mind all the time and not some other guy she has pet names with and texts more than u. IMO calling her on her **** will definitely come off as jealous and clingy no matter what, but letting her be and eventually going down that path I did is just not DJ.

So what I am going to suggest is that you get some options yourself too.

 

[Sir Psycho Sexy]

I would say dont trust her but as long as your having sex with her your okay.

Only the real fvcked up high school girls are okay with having a boyfriend and fvcking other guys.
And its really not hard to keep track of what she does if your the boyfriend. For instance if she claims she didnt do anything saturday night? Thats not a good sign.

If the sex stops? Back way off and disconnect yourself from her because shes wanting to break up

Look on the bright side though, you can get away with texting and flirting with whoever you want. If she does leave you, you should have girls lined up ready to fvck.

 

[Analyzeit]

Everyones got a point here especially with the keep options open, you guy are only 16 and well it's only 2 months into it...

Now i'ma break it to ya lol... She does has feelings for this guy

Now now... it doesn't mean she loves him doesn't mean she's sleeping with him. and i bet she does like you more.

but he's a friend to her maybe more in the past, for high school girls they don't like losing friends they just don't, she has an attachment to him. now don't take this badly. it's just only 2 months into it, she'll learn soon that to keep you she's gotta ditch this guy.. she's probably already worried because she's falling away from him at the moment. i hope you understand. it's no biggie and the only way to stop yourself from getting jealous is to be able to say in your head "if you went for that guy at any day i got more girls in my line to" you need to remember that...

Your the prize! and if she don't think that... your coming off desperate... not good

 

[getready]

Thanks for the input. It doesn't really bother me as she seems really into me and im the one who took her v card. Shes not gonna cheat on me and if she does end up wanting to go with this guy no biggie ill have more plates spinnin.