"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jealousy over other people hooking up - how to get over this

Demystify

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has anyone had this problem?

a good example is this girl I know hooked up with two other guys I know and she wouldn't hookup with me so I got kind of pissed about it, the other two guys were both nuts - one was a psychopath and the other had anger problems, it just made me feel like sh1t knowing she hooked up with these other two losers but wouldn't hookup with me
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Stop being jealous over something so irrelevant.

So what these guys hooked up with some chick- This happens every day, every minute; some chick is getting boned by another dude.

Girls get jealous over girls who get guys; GUYS who pull women aren't jealous cause they don't care.

The sad reality of it is, no matter how big of losers these dudes may be, they still had the balls to make the move on this girl, and thus got it.

Instead of feeling bad for yourself, learn from them and go make some moves.
 

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Danger, excitement and the appearance of extreme confidence.

Thats what those boys gave to the girl who rode their c0cks all night long that you didn't.

They may indeed be losers of life in general but clearly they are not losers with women.

Learn from their example.

Neither of them likely gave a sh!t about that girl and she knew it which is what turned her on so much in addition to the other traits.

You cared or she sensed you would fall in love with her if she hooked up with you so you got nothing.

Remember that.
 

shaunuk

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Hookups happen all the time, she hooked up with them, it goes without saying, because she was attracted to them. She was less attracted to you.

Keep running your game, and other guys will be looking on in awe as you're pulling the girl they had their eye on.

My point is, even as your game is getting very sharp, not every girl will always dig it. Even when you're doing "everything right" and improving, always remember...you're not the only guy in town.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Women are all sluts and *****s nowadays and will jump the first superficial thing to lay eyes on them. We need to go back to when a woman knew her place,in the home/kitchen. No sluttin around, no girls nights out, no one night stands with the ******* you met at the club, no. We need to go back, even if it is by brutal,physical force.

Women, are such unrealistic idiots. All that women's lib/feminism crap in the 70's screwed everything up for the rest of us.

"Danger, excitement and the appearance of extreme confidence" If that's what really get's these sluts going, something is terribly wrong.

We see this happen time and time again, the generally good guy, and I am not saying I'm an angel, I've done some bad **** that I ain't too happy about, get's passed over for whatever superficial,trend following,********** douche of the week. I hate it. It will end. Soon.
 

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CapedCrusader08 said:
Women are all sluts and *****s nowadays and will jump the first superficial thing to lay eyes on them. We need to go back to when a woman knew her place,in the home/kitchen. No sluttin around, no girls nights out, no one night stands with the ******* you met at the club, no. We need to go back, even if it is by brutal,physical force.

:rockon: :rockon: :rockon: :rockon:

Real Talk Cuz...Real Talk!!!
 

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Did you at least learn what you did wrong?

Remember the feelings you had of feeling rejected, because if you try to forget about it you won't learn anything. Those feelings if they are allowed to linger for a little bit will help you find a solution to this so you don't go through it again. Logical memory alone will not solve anything in the long run

Personally, if this girl is banging losers who the **** cares about her?
 
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