jealousy insight

[papawapa]

Was out with one of my plates on saturday night. Three times I left her alone to get drinks or go to the bathroom. All three times I returned to find some AFC talking to her. After we bounced she asked me if it made me jealous that other guys talked to her. I told her nope. She got a little twisted by my response. Asked me why I wasnt jealous. I told her 'I know you are coming back to my place. There is nothing for me to be worried or jealous about.' She let it slip that me not being jealous bothered her because she couldnt tell how much I am into her.

So there you have it. Being indifferent to attention from other men makes the hamster spin.

 

[LP700-4]

And in other news, water is wet.

 

[teddy]

Was out with one of my plates on saturday night. Three times I left her alone to get drinks or go to the bathroom. All three times I returned to find some AFC talking to her. After we bounced she asked me if it made me jealous that other guys talked to her. I told her nope. She got a little twisted by my response. Asked me why I wasnt jealous. I told her 'I know you are coming back to my place. There is nothing for me to be worried or jealous about.' She let it slip that me not being jealous bothered her because she couldnt tell how much I am into her.

So there you have it. Being indifferent to attention from other men makes the hamster spin.

Did you **** this girl at any point before this happened?

 

[LandingWood]

What if she would have said "uhhm we'll see if I'm coming back to your place" or somehibg like that. That still a shvit test?

 

[Dgwizdal]

Dude I've gotten the same question 3 times by 3 different girls. The only time I reacted was not good news.

Always be an unmovable oak tree in the face of a hurricane.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Of course the hamster spins. I said this a few months ago and I probably don't say it enough here:

Women want a man's love more than they want to love a man.

Its very important to women that YOU like THEM regardless of how they feel about you. This gives them control over you which leads to security for THEM.

Now that she is insecure about her position.. she will start playing games and trying to manipulate you to gain more leverage in the relationship. Its about power. Modern women were raised to believe women should rule men in relationships.

This is also an issue of what "label" to give you. Women need to label all men in their lives so they know how to act around them and what information to share with them. If you get jealous.. she knows you're beta and thus under her control. If you don't get jealous.. you might be alpha OR not into her. She needs to know which one so she can act accordingly.

 

[The Duke]

Once again Professor PlayHer Man nails it.

 

[VikingKing]

They do it to see how much you care. To be reactive is to be weak. The more you care, the weaker you appear.

The one who cares the least has the most power in any relationship.