"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jealousy has me so confused?

Jonnybravo

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Il pat myself on the back if it’s all 3 at the same time in the same bed haha. Sounds made up I know, but it’s 100%, not like that all the time but this week it’s 3, it’s always either a feast or a famine

What about the girl I wrote about at the end of that post. How would you go about making it happen with her?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Visionist

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You shouldn't turn down sex unless it's with a fatty.
 

redskinsfan92

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read this forum for awhile but just joined up for advice. This girl I’m into for awhile (never went further than texting) she used always contact me but when she got a sniff that I was into her she played games!
Hot and cold, one word replies and all the usual stuff, I never chased her or double text, I’d ignore for days. I asked her out awhile back and she just replied “no I’m busy” very rude I thought. Anyway I pretended I had a date a few weeks later. She got curious as to who, one of her friends I told her haha!
She went crazy and blocked me off everything.
Her friend told me she’s into me so why play these games? Why reject me so rudely when I asked her out?
And was I to harsh in letting her think I dated her friend? What next........ ignore her and see if she comes back? Try make contact? Girls come and go but there’s always that one that gets into your head and plays with it. Thanks in advance
She was rude to you. Who cares if she,'s into you. Forget her. Ghost her. NEXT!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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