Jealousy backfiring?

[SHChamp]

So, one of the plates I'm spinning decided to give me several **** tests over the past couple of days.

The first being to try and get me jealous by mentioning her photoshoot to a friend in my vicinity, stating how intense it was being with the male model and that they almost liplocked for the shoot and how 'unbearable' the tension was.

I could see where this was going, so I just ignored it, turned around, and started talking to some other girls. This was when I noticed that she started to get annoyed, a few moments later she threw around another **** test, disrespecting me in front of people. I just gave her a 'disappointed sith lord' look and stood up and went across the room to talk to other people.

However, here is where it sort of went wrong (or right?). I decided to stop giving her any attention, and focus on all the other HB8's at the place. But, for some reason, I was getting quite the amount of attention by several of them.

As I was teasing and flirting with all of them, I noticed her getting even more quiet and annoyed. Until at one point, one of my plates send me a voice note which accidentally played that said 'Come to us, we miss you so much!!'.

At this point I could see she was about to explode, the night ended without even her saying goodbye.

Now, I'm not quite sure what to do at this point. Did I **** it up, or?

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Pfft. Fairly typical; doesn't like the taste of her own medicine.

The only thing you might do differently next time is not appear to be annoyed, in any way. A more powerful way to deal with the disrespect is just to provide a blank stare, then go talk to the other 8's. She'll get the same message, but you're not seen to be engaging with it (by others, at least).

Wouldn't bother with this one personally. Sounds like an attention-seeking d!ck.

 

[SHChamp]

Pfft. Fairly typical; doesn't like the taste of her own medicine.

The only thing you might do differently next time is not appear to be annoyed, in any way. A more powerful way to deal with the disrespect is just to provide a blank stare, then go talk to the other 8's. She'll get the same message, but you're not seen to be engaging with it (by others, at least).

Wouldn't bother with this one personally. Sounds like an attention-seeking d!ck.

I agree with you completely. Normally, I would just delete her number and just next her, however, I have already invested quite some time into this one.

Her behavior of the last couple of days is not how it usually is, to me it looked like she was trying to find out how interested I am in her because I don't chase her ass around like her beta-orbiters.

What I'm really curious about is, did I overdid the whole playing fire with fire thing? I do realize that making her too jealous will lead to resentment, so can this still be salvaged, and if so, how?

 

[LMFAO]

Presumably you haven't fxxcked her yet.

I would hit her up in 3-4 days by text, see how she responds and ask her out for a drink.

If she doesn't appear keen then forget about her and then yes in that case she is just an attention seeking c0ck tease.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

I agree with you completely. Normally, I would just delete her number and just next her, however, I have already invested quite some time into this one.

Well, we've all made wasted investments. Do what you want, try to weigh up the cost-benefit with each individual. Personally, I have no time for chicks (nor chumps) that like to cause a scene in front of others.

Her behavior of the last couple of days is not how it usually is, to me it looked like she was trying to find out how interested I am in her because I don't chase her ass around like her beta-orbiters.

Exactly right. You're not one of her faithful 'man' servants that needs to lap up the crumbs she tosses out because you know you can have the full three-course meal pretty much when you please. It will go one way or another; she either keep up the testing and carry on being a knob (in which case she gets one verbal warning, then third strike = out), or she will have learnt that you are a man of abundance and she needs to tow the line a bit if she is to keep up with you.

What I'm really curious about is, did I overdid the whole playing fire with fire thing? I do realize that making her too jealous will lead to resentment, so can this still be salvaged, and if so, how?

Don't bother stooping to her level of trying to induce jealousy. That's not healthy dude. Just do what you want. If she's f*cking around, go talk to other people because you want to, opposed to staying and dealing with her little tantrum, not because you are reacting to her. I don't care how hot a chick is, if she is purposefully trying to f*ck around, I'm going to find something/someone else to entertain me.

High-quality individuals don't need to bother with this nonsense; they going out, socialise and get on with life and generally don't have the time and operate on too-high a frequency to engage in such pointless BS.

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[SHChamp]

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Beautiful. Thank you, all I needed to know.

 

[El Payaso]

She's a plate so treat her like that. She's free to date others and so are you. Let her get over her childishness and immature behavior. She will contact you in due time if she has a mature brain.

 

[Cremasta]

No, you didn't f**k it up. In fact I reckon you handled it pretty well and is worth keeping in the playbook.

Where she started to disrespect you is where she f****d up.
Any girl's 'good standing' status as one of your plates should always be conditional on behaving themselves.

Well done.