Jealousy... a good thing?

[lugsy211]

Is it okay to tell your girlfriend you're jealous whenever she talks about her male friend?
Im not sure if jealousy can be seen as a sign of weakness.... or can it be interpreted as masculine dominance?

 

[michaelhctam]

Is it okay to tell your girlfriend you're jealous whenever she talks about her male friend?
Im not sure if jealousy can be seen as a sign of weakness.... or can it be interpreted as masculine dominance?

Hrmmm, not quite lugsy; I don't think you quite get the concept of DJ yet.

When you mention 'masculine dominance' by being jealous its quite contradictory to what should be done.

I think by exposing yourself and ******dly saying that you are jealous would make you seem MORE weak not dominant because it shows that you are:

1. Effected by her greatly which makes you at her mercy
2. Shows you are not in control of the situation (meaning, you cant control your emotions)
3. Shows you are insecure.

I guess those three are the only ones I can think of atm.

I will come back later and post some more.

 

[flexion_]

No its not ok.

 

[Juan_Man]

Never say that you are jealous. But if she is spending a lot of time with him, then I think it's okay to tell her that you have a problem with it.