"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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mike88nbd

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Ok, so Ive been getting better with the girls, but at the same time Ive picked up alot of haters who are jealous of my success.

These pricks will try to give me sh1t over anything they can find, my hair, my clothes, or even just throwing cheap insults at me like "b1tch" or "fag" to try to get me down.

Now, obviously I know these guys are just insecure chumps, but how do I handle them?

I’m big enough where that I could probably beat the sh1t outta some of these kids, but if I do that that’s going to show everyone that they're getting to me and that I’m insecure. Then they might come back with bigger friends and then I’m stuck. And besides, I can’t be getting into fights all through my senior year over chumps like this.

But if I just laugh it off and throw something back at them, then they just keep doing it, upping the insults, trying to get me to break. Then I’ll look weak.

How can I handle these chumps without looking insecure or weak?
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Get new friends. Bro's before Ho's. Bro's don't put you down.
 

mike88nbd

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Originally posted by spider_007
Respect. show them respect, and DEMAND respect in return.
I dont know what you mean by that? I respect alot of people as long as they respect me...

Originally posted by flexion_
Get new friends. Bro's before Ho's. Bro's don't put you down.
Its not my friends, I have some cool friends, Im talking about other pr1cks at my school
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Become a Ninja and Ninja slap them everytime they disrespect you. My friends have been Ninja slapped 100s of time and they have learnt there lesson.

This is me on completion of my NINJA training in Okinawa Japan

http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a394/GTASAglitch/japanesegardencopy.jpg

This is me in Iraq taking on a contingent of the Iraqi army with only a plank of wood and my most deadly weapon MY BODY

http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a394/GTASAglitch/untitled.jpg

This is me having sex with a girl i just met on the beach

http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a394/GTASAglitch/dsqawd.jpg
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Offer them a chance to shut the f.ck up or to take it outside and settle it like men, when they back down call them little girls and refer to them as "Princess" from there on out.
 

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Ok il be serious i had a friend and on new years eve we went to a club. When we got to the club there was this hot 9/10 standing in the line and my friend turns to me and says "she is so hot omg i want her shes hot i want to f*ck her". So i said talk to her and he says later.

Few hours later were in the club and we see her dancing my friend had drunk a bit so he was feeling confident. With a little push from me he approches her and he gets rejected poor lil drunk AFC. Then i decide to approch her. I dont rember what i said but i ended up dancing with her and kissing her on the dance floor whilst all my drunk friends watched.

The next day im talking to my friend and i say How how was that greek girl i picked up. My friend looks at me with a completely serious face "man she was ugly". This is the girl he was saying was a glamma after i get her shes ugly.

it took me 7 months but last week i told this friend to **** off and all the rest of my jelous friends also. That is your only option fu*k them off and make new friends who share your intrest in women.

Basicly cut of complete contact with anyone who is jelous of you or who is holding you back.

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Originally posted by mike88nbd
16, 17, 18, we're all in highschool.
Highschool insecurities. Theres no real cure except to do exactly what you're doing. Ride it out - seriously what do you care? You're getting the girls, they have to go home to their hand, and all they can do to recapture their threatened masculinity is call you names. They'll continue to fail, you'll continue to win. Ride it out, smile at them, act like it doesnt matter, because my friend, it doesnt. With every success you make in your life, you'll pick up a few new enemies who cant make it where you did, so all they do is b**ch about it.
Enjoy the women, and wait till college when your abilities will actually get you mad respect.
 

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Its pretty simple actually. Have you ever punkd anybody? Not like the show. When some guy says somthin stupid you just snap all of a sudden. What did u say!!!!!! gotta be real tough about it like your gonna kick his ass or somthin.

Another way is to rib on him. Some guy calls u a fag.
Tell him "man your the one hangin wit nothin but dudes, dont hate me cuz i like girls".

If it comes down to it just b!tch slap one of them.
 

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Originally posted by NSUballer
Its pretty simple actually. Have you ever punkd anybody? Not like the show. When some guy says somthin stupid you just snap all of a sudden. What did u say!!!!!! gotta be real tough about it like your gonna kick his ass or somthin.

Another way is to rib on him. Some guy calls u a fag.
Tell him "man your the one hangin wit nothin but dudes, dont hate me cuz i like girls".

If it comes down to it just b!tch slap one of them.
NINJA SLAP dam it
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Since this is highschool, you should just ride it. If you can come up with some good insults and comebacks for these detractors, use them and embarrass them. Treat them like children. Heck, they don't even have to be good insults:


"*****!"

"..your mom's a what? Thats not nice"

"fag"

"..that's what they call your dad at that bar he likes to go to"

- or -

"..have you jumped the fence? Not all women hate you. Face it, you're not really gay, so stop trying so hard"


Etc.( I didn't say they had to be good:p)


Whatever man, university is right around the corner, and I will say that it is A HUNDRED MILLION TIMES BETTER than high school.
 

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since this is high school and you're still a teenager, this is my advice. it's not the best advice, but it should solve your problem. if either of these guys is in a gang, don't do what i'm about to tell you.

two things make a person shut up - fear, and embarassment. since this is high school, the first one works a lot better.

next time one of them talks smack to you, kick the sh!t out of him without any warning whatsoever. don't go up to him and do that "what did you say" fronting, don't threaten, don't make fun of him (cause then he'll keep talking sh!t so he doesn't lose this verbal war), and don't warn him. simply rush him, start hitting, keep your mouth closed, and keep hitting until he goes down or someone pulls you off.

as long as you don't get carried away and put the guy in a hospital, and you don't use something that can be considered a weapon, you wont get into any real trouble (don't take my word for it, read the school code first). you wont get expelled, or have problems graduating. you'll get suspended for a few days, maybe a week, but after you come back, neither of them will talk sh!t to you again, because it'll be known that you don't tolerate that. they'll know that anytime they say something to you, there is a large chance that you may go apesh!t and wreck them. don't worry about rematches, if you hurt him good and scare the sh!t out of him, he wont want a 2nd fight. a hard uppercut to the chin will do this to a guy.

also, since this is high school, your rep will prolly go up as most guys will respect you more for winning a fight, and some will even try to befriend you because they'll feel protected if they're your friend. girls on the other hand (even tho they think fighting is stupid), will see that no guy has the balls to f*ck with you, and that you stand up for yourself, and they wont hold this fight against you either as long as you are a good guy to everyone else. plus they'll see that other guys respect you, and that gives you alpha-like status.

and if he brings friends, fight dirty.
 

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I'd just offer them consultancy services, for a small price of course, to cover time and materials.

You are witnessing human nature, later in life you may witness it if you start to become wealthy.
 

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Do what MindOverMatter said, just beat the living **** out of someone to set the example, without any warnings whatsoever.
 

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I don't know about the beatin the shyt out of him advice. This is highschool. You'll never see these *******s again after you graduate. I promise you that.

I'm all for not taking shyt from anyone, but in today's fvcked up society, this could escalate into something more serious where weapons could be used.

It's my opinion that it's not worth it. If they talk ****, keep ignoring them. If they get physical with you, knock them the fvck out....

I know it's hard to just take it, and I certainly wouldn't blame you if you didn't, but If they're not physically assaulting you, I don't think it's worth the risk to escalate it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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